如何真正的爱自己？
<p><span word="True">True</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="love">love</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="selfish">selfish</span> <span word="pleasure">pleasure</span>,</p><p>真正的自爱并不是指一个人的享乐</p><p><span word="but">but</span> <span word="rather">rather</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="origin">origin</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="discipline">discipline</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="willpower">willpower</span>.</p><p>而是自律和意志力的源泉</p><p><span word="Self">Self</span>-<span word="love">love</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="giving">giving</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="everything">everything</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="want">want</span>,</p><p>自爱不是把想要的一切都交给自己</p><p><span word="but">but</span> <span word="rather">rather</span> <span word="giving">giving</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="you">you</span>.</p><p>而是把对自己有好处的东西交给自己</p><p><span word="Spending">Spending</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="weekend">weekend</span> <span word="eating">eating</span> <span word="pizza">pizza</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="watching">watching</span> <span word="movies">movies</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="great">great</span>,</p><p>把周末的时间花在吃披萨饼和看电影上，你或许会觉得很棒</p><p><span word="but">but</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="love">love</span>.</p><p>但这并不是自爱</p><p><span word="Self">Self</span>-<span word="love">love</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="discipline">discipline</span>.</p><p>自爱是纪律</p><p><span word="It">It</span> <span word="says">says</span>,</p><p>它会告诉你</p><p>“<span word="You">You</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="this">this</span>,</p><p>现在的你可能不喜欢这样</p><p><span word="but">but</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="future">future</span> <span word="You">You</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="start">start</span> <span word="this">this</span>.”</p><p>但未来的你会希望你这样开始走向他</p><p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="simply">simply</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="whatever">whatever</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="want">want</span>,</p><p>如果我们一味的为所欲为</p><p><span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="akin">akin</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="letting">letting</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="toddler">toddler</span> <span word="run">run</span> <span word="wild">wild</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="spoiled">spoiled</span>.</p><p>就像让一个两三岁的孩子放任自流，败坏心性</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="parent">parent</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="spoiled">spoiled</span> <span word="toddler">toddler</span> <span word="gives">gives</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="kid">kid</span> <span word="everything">everything</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="want">want</span>,</p><p>被宠坏的孩子能从父母那里得到他想要的一切</p><p><span word="and">and</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="parent">parent</span> <span word="believes">believes</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="loving">loving</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="kid">kid</span>,</p>
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