When We Get Angry 当我们生气了
<p><span word="How">How</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="control">control</span> <span word="emotion">emotion</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="tough">tough</span> <span word="question">question</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="solved">solved</span>. <span word="When">When</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="angry">angry</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="easy">easy</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="lose">lose</span> <span word="control">control</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="speak">speak</span> <span word="ill">ill</span> <span word="words">words</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="others">others</span>, <span word="even">even</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="ones">ones</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="love">love</span>. <span word="Impulse">Impulse</span> <span word="brings">brings</span> <span word="endless">endless</span> <span word="regret">regret</span>. <span word="When">When</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="clear">clear</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="minds">minds</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="sorry">sorry</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="bring">bring</span> <span word="hurt">hurt</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="ones">ones</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="love">love</span>. <span word="Friendship">Friendship</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="family">family</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="under">under</span> <span word="threatened">threatened</span>. <span word="For">For</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="moody">moody</span> <span word="person">person</span>, <span word="he">he</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="lose">lose</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="both">both</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="wise">wise</span> <span word="choice">choice</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="release">release</span> <span word="emotion">emotion</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="angry">angry</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="better">better</span> <span word="choice">choice</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="walk">walk</span> <span word="away">away</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="keep">keep</span> <span word="silent">silent</span>, <span word="no">no</span> <span word="matter">matter</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="shout">shout</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="others">others</span>, <span word="cause">cause</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="regretful">regretful</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="say">say</span>. <span word="When">When</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="calm">calm</span> <span word="down">down</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="problem">problem</span> <span word="seems">seems</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="serious">serious</span>. <span word="We">We</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="lucky">lucky</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="impulsive">impulsive</span> <span word="behavior">behavior</span>.</p><p>控制情绪是一个很难解决的问题。当人们感到愤怒时,他们很容易失去控制,说别人的坏话,甚至伤害了他们所爱的人。冲动带来无尽的悔恨,当他们冷静下来时,他们就会感到很抱歉,因为他们给所爱的人带来了伤害。友谊和亲情都受到了威胁,因为对于一个喜怒无常的人来说,他可能会失去他们。在我们生气的时候这不是释放情绪的正确方法。更好的方法应该是先走开,保持沉默。无论我们多么想对别人大喊大叫,都不要说,因为我们说了就会遗憾。当我们冷静下来时,回头看问题就觉得也没有那么严重,我们会为了自己没有做出冲动的决定而感到幸运。</p>
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