The Distance Between Parents and Children 父母与孩子的距离
<p><span word="Chinese">Chinese</span> <span word="parents">parents</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="believed">believed</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="responsible">responsible</span> <span word="parents">parents</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="world">world</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="anything">anything</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="kids">kids</span>, <span word="such">such</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="washing">washing</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="clothes">clothes</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="cleaning">cleaning</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="bedroom">bedroom</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="let">let</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="study">study</span>. <span word="When">When</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="grow">grow</span> <span word="up">up</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="parents">parents</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="willing">willing</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="buy">buy</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="house">house</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="them">them</span>. <span word="While">While</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="western">western</span> <span word="countries">countries</span>, <span word="when">when</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="kids">kids</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="above">above</span> 16, <span word="parents">parents</span> <span word="expect">expect</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="move">move</span> <span word="out">out</span>, <span word="because">because</span> <span word="both">both</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="personal">personal</span> <span word="space">space</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="distance">distance</span> <span word="between">between</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="old">old</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="young">young</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="overprotection">overprotection</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="nothing">nothing</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="both">both</span> <span word="sides">sides</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="important">important</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="learn">learn</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="independent">independent</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="children">children</span>. <span word="Distance">Distance</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="create">create</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="chance">chance</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="let">let</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="learn">learn</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="deal">deal</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="stuffs">stuffs</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="mature">mature</span>. <span word="Parents">Parents</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="let">let</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="right">right</span> <span word="time">time</span>.</p><p>中国的父母被认为是世界上最负责任的父母，因为他们愿意为他们的孩子做任何事，比如给孩子们洗衣服，打扫卧室，只是为了让孩子们有更多的学习时间。当孩子们长大了，父母愿意给他们买房子。而在西方国家，当孩子们16岁以后，父母就希望他们搬出去，因为双方都需要私人空间。我认为老一代和年轻人之间应该有一定距离，否则过度的保护对双方都不好。对孩子来说重要的是要学会独立，距离可以创造机会，让他们学会处理自己的事情，变得成熟。父母应该在恰当的时间放手。</p>
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