别幻想了，他其实没那么喜欢你……这几个标准你一测便知
<p>不断进化的语言让我们能越来越贴切地表述这个世界。许多词语可以表达“一个人对你没什么意思”，可我们却对此并不熟悉。</p><p><span word="What">What</span> <span word="used">used</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="stricter">stricter</span> <span word="binary">binary</span> <span word="between">between</span> <span word="dating">dating</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="dating">dating</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="turned">turned</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="spectrum">spectrum</span> <span word="of">of</span> "<span word="ghosting">ghosting</span>" <span word="to">to</span> "<span word="breadcrumbing">breadcrumbing</span>" <span word="to">to</span> "<span word="haunting">haunting</span>" <span word="to">to</span> "<span word="orbiting">orbiting</span>".</p><p>曾经，回答约会只有“约”与“不约”两个选项，而现在，两个选项间涵盖了数种可能，从“玩消失”到“撒面包屑”到“阴魂不散”再到“卫星环绕”等等。</p><p><span word="What">What</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="terms">terms</span> <span word="mean">mean</span>? <span word="Are">Are</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="happening">happening</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="you">you</span>? <span word="Or">Or</span> <span word="worse">worse</span>, <span word="are">are</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="doing">doing</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="else">else</span>?</p><p>这些表达有何含义？这些事是否发生在了你身上？或者更糟的是，你就是这样对待别人的？</p><p><span word="Ghosting">Ghosting</span> 玩消失</p><p><span word="What">What</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="exactly">exactly</span>? <span word="You">You</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="gone">gone</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="few">few</span> <span word="nice">nice</span> <span word="dates">dates</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="accounts">accounts</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="well">well</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="sudden">sudden</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="disappear">disappear</span>.</p><p>“玩消失”到底是啥？你与某人几度约会，两人都觉相处甚欢，可<span word="TA">TA</span>突然就不见人影了。</p><p><span word="They">They</span> <span word="didn">didn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="type">type</span> "<span word="brb">brb</span>", <span word="there">there</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="mention">mention</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="paying">paying</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="phone">phone</span> <span word="bill">bill</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="having">having</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="ability">ability</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="contact">contact</span> <span word="you">you</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="vanished">vanished</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="thin">thin</span> <span word="air">air</span>.</p><p>甚至连“马上回来”都不再发给你。不是因为电话欠费，也不是因为无法回复，就是不想理你了，凭空消失得无影无踪。</p><p><span word="You">You</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="only">only</span> <span word="assume">assume</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="peacefully">peacefully</span> <span word="passed">passed</span> <span word="away">away</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="such">such</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="case">case</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="allowed">allowed</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="actually">actually</span> <span word="check">check</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="local">local</span> <span word="obituaries">obituaries</span>.</p>
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