研究表明 劝慰别人时候只要静静聆听就可以了
<p><span word="Struggling">Struggling</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="right">right</span> <span word="thing">thing</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="say">say</span> -- <span word="or">or</span> <span word="post">post</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="Facebook">Facebook</span> -- <span word="over">over</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="loved">loved</span> <span word="one">one</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="hardship">hardship</span>? <span word="You">You</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="stop">stop</span> <span word="now">now</span>.</p><p>当所爱之人经历困境,你是否很纠结不知道说什么或者在<span word="Facebook">Facebook</span>上发表些什么?你现在可以什么都不用说了。</p><p><span word="Turns">Turns</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="isn">isn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="right">right</span> <span word="phrase">phrase</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="everything">everything</span> <span word="better">better</span>, <span word="according">according</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="series">series</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="studies">studies</span> <span word="published">published</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="journal">journal</span> <span word="Basic">Basic</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="Applied">Applied</span> <span word="Social">Social</span> <span word="Psychology">Psychology</span>.</p><p>发表在《基础与应用社会心理学》杂志上的一系列研究表明,实际上并没有一个正确的短语能让一切变得更好。</p><p><span word="Psychologists">Psychologists</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="Wayne">Wayne</span> <span word="State">State</span> <span word="University">University</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="Detroit">Detroit</span> <span word="asked">asked</span> 54 <span word="undergrads">undergrads</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="rate">rate</span> 96 "<span word="supportive">supportive</span>" <span word="statements">statements</span>, <span word="tackling">tackling</span> <span word="eight">eight</span> <span word="hypothetical">hypothetical</span> <span word="crisis">crisis</span> <span word="situations">situations</span>.</p><p>底特律韦恩州立大学的心理学家让54名本科生对96种“支持性”叙述进行打分,处理8种假设的危机情况。</p>
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