生命中的这些匆匆过客该如何面对?
<p><span word="Dani">Dani</span> <span word="Shapiro">Shapiro</span> <span word="considers">considers</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="slip">slip</span> <span word="away">away</span>—<span word="and">and</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="bravery">bravery</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="compassion">compassion</span>.</p><p>丹妮•夏皮罗细思生命中的匆匆过客，思考我们该如何心怀慈悲地勇敢前行。</p><p>1. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="Friend">Friend</span> <span word="Who">Who</span> <span word="Let">Let</span> <span word="You">You</span> <span word="Down">Down</span></p><p>1.伤害过你的朋友</p><p><span word="We">We</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="these">these</span>. <span word="Some">Some</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="one">one</span>. <span word="By">By</span> <span word="which">which</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="mean">mean</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="laugh">laugh</span> <span word="with">with</span>, <span word="cry">cry</span> <span word="with">with</span>, <span word="work">work</span> <span word="side">side</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="side">side</span> <span word="with">with</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="deep">deep</span> <span word="down">down</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="gut">gut</span>, <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="place">place</span> <span word="where">where</span> <span word="intuition">intuition</span> <span word="lies">lies</span>, <span word="doesn">doesn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="wish">wish</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="us">us</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="sorts">sorts</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="ways">ways</span>. <span word="She">She</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="mean">mean</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="hurt">hurt</span> <span word="us">us</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="hurt">hurt</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="does">does</span>. <span word="So">So</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="went">went</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="Helen">Helen</span>, <span word="my">my</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> <span word="of">of</span> 15 <span word="years">years</span>. <span word="One">One</span> <span word="afternoon">afternoon</span>, <span word="Helen">Helen</span> <span word="came">came</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="house">house</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="visit">visit</span>. <span word="She">She</span> <span word="brought">brought</span> <span word="along">along</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="woman">woman</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="didn">didn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="know">know</span>. <span word="My">My</span> <span word="son">son</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="having">having</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="big">big</span> <span word="old">old</span> <span word="toddler">toddler</span> <span word="tantrum">tantrum</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="moment">moment</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="delighted">delighted</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="tantrum">tantrum</span>. <span word="He">He</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="terribly">terribly</span> <span word="ill">ill</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="infant">infant</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="nearly">nearly</span> <span word="died">died</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="normal">normal</span> <span word="toddler">toddler</span> <span word="behavior">behavior</span>. <span word="He">He</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="red">red</span>-<span word="faced">faced</span>, <span word="screaming">screaming</span>, <span word="stamping">stamping</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="little">little</span> <span word="feet">feet</span>. <span word="Alive">Alive</span>! <span word="Healthy">Healthy</span>! <span word="As">As</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="scooped">scooped</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="arms">arms</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="overheard">overheard</span> <span word="Helen">Helen</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="companion">companion</span> <span word="ask">ask</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="old">old</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="boy">boy</span> <span word="was">was</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="caught">caught</span> <span word="Helen">Helen</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="reflection">reflection</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="mirror">mirror</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="mouthed">mouthed</span>: <span word="He">He</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="two">two</span>, <span word="rolled">rolled</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="eyes">eyes</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="shook">shook</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="head">head</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="dreadful">dreadful</span> <span word="moment">moment</span>—<span word="a">a</span> <span word="reckoning">reckoning</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="realization">realization</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="judgment">judgment</span>, <span word="her">her</span> <span word="lack">lack</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="empathy">empathy</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="called">called</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="it">it</span>, <span word="eventually">eventually</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="there">there</span>, <span word="really">really</span>, <span word="to">to</span> <span word="say">say</span>? <span word="She">She</span> <span word="apologized">apologized</span> <span word="profusely">profusely</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="accepted">accepted</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="apology">apology</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="knew">knew</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="same">same</span> <span word="between">between</span> <span word="us">us</span>. <span word="Helen">Helen</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="part">part</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="learning">learning</span> <span word="curve">curve</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="safely">safely</span> <span word="let">let</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="inner">inner</span> <span word="circle">circle</span>. <span word="Lesson">Lesson</span> <span word="learned">learned</span>.</p>
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