爱情中一定要做和绝不能做的事
<p><span word="As">As</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="psychologist">psychologist</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="counselor">counselor</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="over">over</span> 25 <span word="years">years</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="speak">speak</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="experience">experience</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="there">there</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="art">art</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="imagine">imagine</span>: <span word="people">people</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="complex">complex</span>, <span word="riddled">riddled</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="flaws">flaws</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="deep">deep</span> <span word="desires">desires</span>, <span word="desperately">desperately</span> <span word="seeking">seeking</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="understood">understood</span>. <span word="Practice">Practice</span> <span word="these">these</span> 8 <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="dos">dos</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="ts">ts</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="fortify">fortify</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="romance">romance</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="harmony">harmony</span>, <span word="stability">stability</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="joy">joy</span>:</p><p>作为一位从业逾25年的心理学家和情感咨询师，从经验出发，我会说：爱的艺术要比我们想象得更高深。人是很复杂的，有令人迷惑的缺点和深层次的渴望，而且非常希望能被别人理解。你可以在情感关系中试试以下8件“一定要”和“一定不要”做的事，让你们的爱情关系更加和谐、稳定、愉悦。</p><p><span word="Do">Do</span> <span word="develop">develop</span> <span word="emotional">emotional</span> <span word="intimacy">intimacy</span>: <span word="Emotional">Emotional</span> <span word="intimacy">intimacy</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="knowing">knowing</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="needs">needs</span> <span word="before">before</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="chance">chance</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="ask">ask</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="picking">picking</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="feelings">feelings</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="own">own</span>. <span word="Develop">Develop</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="sense">sense</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="emotional">emotional</span> <span word="intimacy">intimacy</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="honest">honest</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="sensitive">sensitive</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="needs">needs</span>.</p><p>一定要建立情感亲密。情感亲密就是知晓伴侣所需，甚至在他们开口之前你就已经知道了。你要关注他们的感觉，就像关注自己的感觉一样。要建立一种情感上的亲密感，你需要和你的伴侣坦诚相待，并敏感地感知他们的需求。</p>
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