善待自己 做最好的自己才能更好地爱人
<p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="used">used</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="believe">believe</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="meant">meant</span> <span word="putting">putting</span> <span word="everyone">everyone</span> <span word="else">else</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="needs">needs</span> <span word="first">first</span>, <span word="before">before</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="own">own</span>. <span word="While">While</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="truth">truth</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="that">that</span>, <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="sense">sense</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="giving">giving</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="ultimate">ultimate</span> <span word="acts">acts</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="loving">loving</span> <span word="person">person</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="came">came</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="realize">realize</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="must">must</span> <span word="give">give</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="myself">myself</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="foremost">foremost</span>.</p><p>以前，我相信爱就意味着要把他人和他人的需求放在自己的需求之前。现在我仍然认为这种观点有一定的道理，因为作一个“施爱者”的最高境界之一就是作一个“给予者”。但是，我渐渐意识到，给予自己、爱自己才是最重要的。</p>
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