囧研究：个性互补在一起才幸福？都是扯淡！
<p><span word="A">A</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="study">study</span> <span word="conducted">conducted</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="researchers">researchers</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="Wellesley">Wellesley</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="University">University</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Kansas">Kansas</span> <span word="says">says</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="opposites">opposites</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="attract">attract</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="reality">reality</span>, <span word="people">people</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="attracted">attracted</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="same">same</span> <span word="views">views</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="values">values</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span>.</p><p>韦尔斯利学院和勘萨斯大学的关系研究人员进行的一项新的研究表明，（个性）异性并不相互吸引。在现实中，人们容易被那些有着相同观点和价值观的人所吸引。</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="study">study</span>, <span word="which">which</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="published">published</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="Journal">Journal</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Personality">Personality</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="Social">Social</span> <span word="Psychology">Psychology</span>, <span word="found">found</span> <span word="a">a</span> “<span word="paradigm">paradigm</span> <span word="shift">shift</span>” <span word="in">in</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="view">view</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="order">order</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="discover">discover</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="important">important</span> <span word="similarity">similarity</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="forming">forming</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span>, <span word="professor">professor</span> <span word="Angela">Angela</span> <span word="Bahns">Bahns</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="team">team</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="researchers">researchers</span> <span word="approached">approached</span> <span word="over">over</span> 1,500 <span word="random">random</span> <span word="pairs">pairs</span> (<span word="romantic">romantic</span> <span word="couples">couples</span>, <span word="friends">friends</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="acquaintances">acquaintances</span>) <span word="and">and</span> <span word="surveyed">surveyed</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="values">values</span>, <span word="prejudices">prejudices</span>, <span word="attitudes">attitudes</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="personality">personality</span> <span word="traits">traits</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="fact">fact</span>, <span word="future">future</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="partners">partners</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="actually">actually</span> <span word="similar">similar</span> “<span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="outset">outset</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="social">social</span> <span word="connection">connection</span>.”<span word="In">In</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="words">words</span>, <span word="people">people</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="similar">similar</span> <span word="views">views</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="met">met</span>.</p><p>这项发表于《人格与社会心理学》杂志上的研究发现，我们在看待人际关系时发生了“范式转移”。为了研究相似性在建立人际关系时的重要性，安吉拉·巴恩斯教授和她的研究团队随机找来了1500多对情侣、朋友和熟人，调查了他们的价值观，偏见，态度和性格特征。事实上，“一开始从他们的社会关系”来看，未来的朋友或伴侣实际上可以很相似。换句话说，即使刚刚认识彼此，他们对生活的看法也会是相似的。</p>
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