支招：如何把爱你的女人永远留在身边
<p><span word="As">As</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span> <span word="counsellor">counsellor</span> <span word="working">working</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="crisis">crisis</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="clients">clients</span> <span word="navigate">navigate</span> <span word="numerous">numerous</span> <span word="issues">issues</span>. <span word="While">While</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="situations">situations</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="complex">complex</span>, <span word="there">there</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="profoundly">profoundly</span> <span word="simple">simple</span> <span word="truth">truth</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="know">know</span>: <span word="Women">Women</span> <span word="leave">leave</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="love">love</span>.</p><p>作为一个为陷入情感危机的男女提供帮助的婚姻顾问，我帮助客户处理过无数问题。虽然很多情况都很复杂，但有一件极为简单的事男人需要知道：女人会离开她们深爱的男人。</p><p><span word="They">They</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="terrible">terrible</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="it">it</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="tears">tears</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="heart">heart</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="them">them</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="it">it</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="rally">rally</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="courage">courage</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="resources">resources</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="leave">leave</span>. <span word="Women">Women</span> <span word="leave">leave</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="whom">whom</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="children">children</span>, <span word="homes">homes</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="lives">lives</span>.</p><p>她们会很痛苦，撕心裂肺，但依然会这样做。她们会重拾勇气和安慰，然后离开。女人会离开那个和她共同抚育子女、经营家庭、一起生活过的男人。</p><p><span word="Women">Women</span> <span word="leave">leave</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="reasons">reasons</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="there">there</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="reason">reason</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="particular">particular</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="haunts">haunts</span> <span word="me">me</span>, <span word="one">one</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="understand">understand</span>: <span word="Women">Women</span> <span word="leave">leave</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="man">man</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="present">present</span>. <span word="He">He</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="working">working</span>, <span word="golfing">golfing</span>, <span word="gaming">gaming</span>, <span word="watching">watching</span> <span word="TV">TV</span>, <span word="fishing">fishing</span>...<span word="the">the</span> <span word="list">list</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="long">long</span>. <span word="These">These</span> <span word="aren">aren</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="men">men</span>. <span word="They">They</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="men">men</span>. <span word="They">They</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="fathers">fathers</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="support">support</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="family">family</span>. <span word="They">They</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="nice">nice</span>, <span word="likeable">likeable</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="wife">wife</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="granted">granted</span>. <span word="They">They</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="present">present</span>.</p><p>女人离开有很多原因，但其中有一个尤其让我难以忘怀，这也是我想让男人们明白的：女人离开是因为这个男人总不在身边。他要工作、打高尔夫、玩游戏、看电视、钓鱼……他们总有很多事。他们也不是不好，都是好男人、好父亲，他们会养家、人好、人缘好，却认为妻子做什么都理所当然，总是不陪在妻子身边。</p>
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