给独立的你：依赖另一半不等于失去自我
<p><span word="Like">Like</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="strong">strong</span>, <span word="independent">independent</span> <span word="women">women</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="committed">committed</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="losing">losing</span> <span word="myself">myself</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>. <span word="After">After</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="digging">digging</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="realized">realized</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="commitment">commitment</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="freedom">freedom</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="making">making</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="alone">alone</span> -- <span word="even">even</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="married">married</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="still">still</span> <span word="operating">operating</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="single">single</span>. <span word="As">As</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="myself">myself</span>. <span word="So">So</span> <span word="here">here</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span>, <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="ready">ready</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="give">give</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="wanted">wanted</span> -- <span word="and">and</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="wouldn">wouldn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="let">let</span> <span word="him">him</span>. <span word="Subconsciously">Subconsciously</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="terrified">terrified</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="started">started</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="rely">rely</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="husband">husband</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="anything">anything</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="mean">mean</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="dependent">dependent</span> (<span word="which">which</span> <span word="meant">meant</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="hurt">hurt</span>). <span word="But">But</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="stopped">stopped</span> <span word="using">using</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="excuse">excuse</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="lose">lose</span> <span word="myself">myself</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="reason">reason</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="to">to</span> "<span word="do">do</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="own">own</span>."</p><p>像很多坚强独立的女性一样，我坚持不在感情中失去自我。但尝试几次之后，我意识到正是我对自由的坚持使我真正感觉孤独，甚至结婚之后也是如此。我仍然表现得好像自己依然单身，好像什么都得自己去做。所以我就是这样的，老公准备给我我想要的东西，但我也不让。我下意识地害怕如果我开始事事依赖我丈夫，那就意味着我不再独立（也就意味着我会受伤）。但后来我不再拿“不想失去自我”当作亲力亲为的借口了。</p><p><span word="Here">Here</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="start">start</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="bring">bring</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="wall">wall</span> <span word="down">down</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="let">let</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="man">man</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="life">life</span>:</p><p>下面就教你如何开始打破心里障碍让男人进入你的生活。</p><p>1. <span word="Identify">Identify</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="wall">wall</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="where">where</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="came">came</span> <span word="from">from</span>.</p><p>认清心里障碍，知道它从何而来。</p>
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