情商：聪明人从来不说这些话
<p><span word="No">No</span> <span word="matter">matter</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="talented">talented</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="accomplished">accomplished</span>, <span word="there">there</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="certain">certain</span> <span word="phrases">phrases</span> <span word="thatinstantly">thatinstantly</span> <span word="change">change</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="forever">forever</span> <span word="cast">cast</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="negative">negative</span> <span word="light">light</span>. <span word="These">These</span> <span word="phrases">phrases</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="loaded">loaded</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="negative">negative</span> <span word="implications">implications</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="undermine">undermine</span> <span word="careers">careers</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="short">short</span> <span word="order">order</span>. <span word="How">How</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="career">career</span> <span word="killers">killers</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="heard">heard</span> <span word="around">around</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="office">office</span> <span word="lately">lately</span>?</p><p>无论你有多聪明、多成功，仍有一些话可以立即改变别人对你的看法，并永远将你打入负面的冷宫。这些话承载着满满的负能量，并且可以迅速毁掉你的前程。最近在办公室里你又听到过多少这些职场杀手句呢？</p><p>1. "<span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="fair">fair</span>"</p><p>这不公平</p><p><span word="Everyone">Everyone</span> <span word="knows">knows</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="isn">isn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="fair">fair</span>. <span word="Saying">Saying</span> <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="fair">fair</span> <span word="suggests">suggests</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="supposed">supposed</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="fair">fair</span>, <span word="which">which</span> <span word="makes">makes</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="immature">immature</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="na">na</span>ï<span word="ve">ve</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="bad">bad</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="say">say</span>, "<span word="I">I</span> <span word="noticed">noticed</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="assigned">assigned</span> <span word="Ann">Ann</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="big">big</span> <span word="project">project</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="hoping">hoping</span> <span word="for">for</span>. <span word="Would">Would</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="mind">mind</span> <span word="telling">telling</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="went">went</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="decision">decision</span>? <span word="I">I</span>'<span word="d">d</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="why">why</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="thought">thought</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="wasn">wasn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="fit">fit</span>, <span word="so">so</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="improving">improving</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="skills">skills</span>."</p><p>每个人都知道生活本来就是不公平的。说不公平表明你认为生活应该是公平的，这只能让你显得不成熟和天真。如果你不想把自己置于那么糟糕的境地，你可以说，“我注意到您让安负责一个大项目，实际上我也想做。请问您介意告诉我是什么让您做出这样的决定吗？我想要知道您觉得我哪里还不够好，以便我进一步改进。”</p>
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