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<p>1. <span word="Conversations">Conversations</span> <span word="matter">matter</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="chiseled">chiseled</span> <span word="features">features</span>.</p><p>1. 与欺骗人的特征相比，对话更重要。</p><p><span word="Dating">Dating</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="Los">Los</span> <span word="Angeles">Angeles</span> <span word="provides">provides</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="fair">fair</span> <span word="share">share</span> <span word="of">of</span> “<span word="slashers">slashers</span>" (<span word="actor">actor</span>/<span word="model">model</span>, <span word="musician">musician</span>/<span word="actor">actor</span>, <span word="actor">actor</span>/<span word="waiter">waiter</span>), <span word="and">and</span> <span word="plenty">plenty</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="still">still</span> <span word="relying">relying</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="looks">looks</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="high">high</span> <span word="school">school</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="replace">replace</span> <span word="substantive">substantive</span> <span word="conversations">conversations</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="quickly">quickly</span> <span word="became">became</span> <span word="clear">clear</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="preferred">preferred</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="intelligent">intelligent</span>, <span word="clever">clever</span> <span word="guy">guy</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="hot">hot</span> <span word="one">one</span>. <span word="I">I</span>’<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="brains">brains</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="body">body</span>, <span word="any">any</span> <span word="day">day</span>.</p><p>洛杉矶的约会能提供不少的“配对项”（演员配模特、音乐家配演员、演员配招待员），还有很多人仍（在相亲时）仰赖他们高中时期的好相貌，而无视意义重大的对话。很快我便明白了，比起身材好的男生，我更喜欢跟头脑好的聪明男生约会。不管是哪一天，我都更看重对方的头脑而非身材外貌。</p><p>2. <span word="Being">Being</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="woman">woman</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="great">great</span> <span word="job">job</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="polarizing">polarizing</span>.</p><p>2. 拥有一份好工作的女性正在极化。</p><p><span word="But">But</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="weeds">weeds</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="guys">guys</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="intimidated">intimidated</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="success">success</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="attracts">attracts</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="ones">ones</span>.</p><p>不过这也排除了被你事业成功吓呆了的不良对象，并吸引来优质男。</p><p>3. <span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="OK">OK</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="walk">walk</span> <span word="away">away</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="apologize">apologize</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="it">it</span>.</p><p>3. 你并不用为自己逃避问题而道歉。</p><p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="went">went</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="plenty">plenty</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="seemed">seemed</span> <span word="nervous">nervous</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="shy">shy</span> <span word="online">online</span> <span word="thinking">thinking</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="maybe">maybe</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="great">great</span> <span word="guys">guys</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="I">I</span>'<span word="d">d</span> <span word="click">click</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="person">person</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="met">met</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="usually">usually</span> <span word="bored">bored</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="tears">tears</span>. <span word="Feeling">Feeling</span> <span word="obliged">obliged</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="give">give</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="shot">shot</span> <span word="anyway">anyway</span> <span word="didn">didn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="either">either</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="favors">favors</span>.</p>
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