谣言终结者：关于双性恋你不知道的五件事
<p>1. <span word="MYTH">MYTH</span>: <span word="Bisexuality">Bisexuality</span> <span word="Is">Is</span> <span word="Just">Just</span> "<span word="Experimenting">Experimenting</span>".</p><p>谬论一：双性恋者只是在“试验”其性向。</p><p><span word="To">To</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="bisexual">bisexual</span> <span word="does">does</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="inherently">inherently</span> <span word="imply">imply</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="state">state</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="flux">flux</span> <span word="or">or</span> "<span word="figuring">figuring</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="out">out</span>." <span word="There">There</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="magic">magic</span> <span word="formula">formula</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="ever">ever</span> <span word="force">force</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="bi">bi</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="lean">lean</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="particular">particular</span> <span word="direction">direction</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="strongly">strongly</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="another">another</span>. <span word="To">To</span> <span word="imply">imply</span> <span word="bisexual">bisexual</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="experimenting">experimenting</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="undermine">undermine</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="identity">identity</span> <span word="entirely">entirely</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="invalidate">invalidate</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="understanding">understanding</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span>.</p><p>双性向的本质反映出来并非是一种变化或“寻找自身”的状态。能迫使一位双性恋更倾向于某一性向的魔法配方根本不存在。“双性恋者只是在试验其性向”的暗示其实彻底削弱了他们的身份认同感，并驳倒其对自身的理解。</p><p>2. <span word="MYTH">MYTH</span>: <span word="Bisexuality">Bisexuality</span> <span word="Is">Is</span> <span word="Greedy">Greedy</span>.</p><p>谬论二：双性向者性贪。</p><p><span word="What">What</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="greedy">greedy</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="attraction">attraction</span>? <span word="Don">Don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="experience">experience</span> <span word="it">it</span>? <span word="How">How</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="greed">greed</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="exists">exists</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="abundantly">abundantly</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="world">world</span>?</p><p>什么会贪图爱与魅惑？它难道不是我们都体验过的吗？倘若这个世界充满着爱与魅惑，那它又怎能被称为贪欲呢？</p><p>3. <span word="MYTH">MYTH</span>: <span word="Bisexual">Bisexual</span> <span word="People">People</span> <span word="Are">Are</span> <span word="More">More</span> <span word="Likely">Likely</span> <span word="To">To</span> <span word="Cheat">Cheat</span> <span word="On">On</span> <span word="You">You</span>.</p><p>谬论三：双性恋者更有可能对你不忠。</p><p><span word="That">That</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="dating">dating</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="gender">gender</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="mean">mean</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="pursue">pursue</span> <span word="everyone">everyone</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="definition">definition</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="monogamy">monogamy</span> <span word="changes">changes</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="couple">couple</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="couple">couple</span>, <span word="not">not</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="sexuality">sexuality</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="another">another</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="committed">committed</span>, <span word="monogamous">monogamous</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="both">both</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="agreed">agreed</span> <span word="on">on</span>, <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="problematic">problematic</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="assume">assume</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="bisexual">bisexual</span> <span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="honor">honor</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="commitment">commitment</span>.</p>
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