别的女人背地里说你坏话怎么办？
<p>1. <span word="Confront">Confront</span> <span word="them">them</span></p><p>1. 面对她们</p><p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="judges">judges</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="every">every</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="meet">meet</span> <span word="them">them</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="useful">useful</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="simply">simply</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="them">them</span>. <span word="A">A</span> <span word="frank">frank</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span> <span word="usually">usually</span> <span word="helps">helps</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="understand">understand</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="other">other</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="discover">discover</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="facts">facts</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="didn">didn</span>`<span word="t">t</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="understand">understand</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="attitude">attitude</span> <span word="towards">towards</span> <span word="you">you</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="able">able</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="prove">prove</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="thinks">thinks</span>. <span word="Don">Don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="it">it</span>, <span word="though">though</span>, <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="try">try</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="understand">understand</span> <span word="you">you</span>.</p><p>如果某人每次一看见你就对你评头论足，那就简单地跟她们说几句，也许会有用。一个坦诚的谈话通常有助于女性互相理解。你也许会发现事实上你对她并不了解，这也许能有助于了解她对你的看法。也许你甚至能够证明你不是她想象中的那样坏。但是，如果你发现她甚至都不想要去了解你的话，就不要这样做。</p><p>2. <span word="Don">Don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="judge">judge</span> <span word="them">them</span></p><p>2. 别去评判她们</p><p><span word="Just">Just</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="judge">judge</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="strong">strong</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="independent">independent</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="mean">mean</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="judge">judge</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="weak">weak</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="passive">passive</span>. <span word="Like">Like</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="not">not</span>, <span word="people">people</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="afraid">afraid</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="strong">strong</span> <span word="women">women</span> – <span word="probably">probably</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="brave">brave</span> <span word="enough">enough</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="bit">bit</span> <span word="stronger">stronger</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="jealous">jealous</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="fact">fact</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span>`<span word="re">re</span> <span word="better">better</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span>. <span word="Instead">Instead</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="judging">judging</span> <span word="them">them</span>, <span word="try">try</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="boost">boost</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="esteem">esteem</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="inspire">inspire</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="stronger">stronger</span>.</p><p>仅仅只是因为别的女人评价你为坚强而独立并不意味着你就可以说别人软弱消极。不管你喜不喜欢，人们都害怕坚强的女人——也许是因为她们没有足够的勇气变得像她们那么勇敢。她们也许会嫉妒你，但事实是你比她们更优秀。试着帮助她们激发自信并且鼓励她们变得更坚强，而不是去评价她们。</p>
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