在爱情面前 独立女子要知道的6件事
<p><span word="To">To</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="independent">independent</span> <span word="woman">woman</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="trust">trust</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="believe">believe</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="fulfilling">fulfilling</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="individual">individual</span> <span word="potential">potential</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="while">while</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="does">does</span> <span word="include">include</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="happy">happy</span>, <span word="loving">loving</span> <span word="partnership">partnership</span>, <span word="independent">independent</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="thing">thing</span> -- <span word="one">one</span> <span word="crucial">crucial</span> <span word="thing">thing</span> -- <span word="differently">differently</span>: <span word="they">they</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="world">world</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="demands">demands</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="opposite">opposite</span>.</p><p>要成为独立的女子，就要信任自己。要相信，生命的意义在于实现自己的潜能，在实现生命意义的过程中，你可能——而且往往会遇到一段幸福感人的爱情，独立的女子在一件事上与众不同——一件残酷的事情：她们永远会将自己放在第一位，尽管整个世界对她们的要求恰恰相反。</p><p><span word="Here">Here</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="six">six</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="proclaimed">proclaimed</span> <span word="independent">independent</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="before">before</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="fall">fall</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="love">love</span>:</p><p>如果你是一个宣扬自我价值的独立女子，下面6件事是你在坠入爱河之前必须知道的。</p><p>1. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="fear">fear</span> <span word="losing">losing</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="autonomy">autonomy</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="carved">carved</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> -- <span word="not">not</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="to">to</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="care">care</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="it">it</span>.</p><p>你可能会担心丧失自己苦心培养起来的独立性——这并不意外着你一定会失掉它，只是你太在乎自己的独立性了。</p><p><span word="Committing">Committing</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="genuinely">genuinely</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="sacrificial">sacrificial</span>. <span word="You">You</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="allowed">allowed</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="afraid">afraid</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="losing">losing</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="thing">thing</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="value">value</span> <span word="most">most</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="allowed">allowed</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="let">let</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="fear">fear</span> <span word="hold">hold</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="back">back</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="much">much</span>.</p>
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