经历的痛苦，也是人生的财富
<p><span word="There">There</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="rose">rose</span> <span word="without">without</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="thorn">thorn</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="thought">thought</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="absolutely">absolutely</span> <span word="necessary">necessary</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="prepare">prepare</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="experience">experience</span> <span word="less">less</span> <span word="pain">pain</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="joy">joy</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="journey">journey</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="life">life</span>.</p><p>人生固然有欢乐，但也一定不乏痛苦。有了这种认识和思想准备也是非常必要的，因为这样会使你的生活增加欢乐而减少痛苦。</p><p><span word="With">With</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="bird">bird</span>’<span word="s">s</span>-<span word="eye">eye</span> <span word="view">view</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="realize">realize</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="meaningful">meaningful</span>. <span word="During">During</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="school">school</span> <span word="years">years</span>, <span word="while">while</span> <span word="joyfully">joyfully</span> <span word="acquiring">acquiring</span> <span word="knowledge">knowledge</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="under">under</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="pressure">pressure</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="homework">homework</span>, <span word="examinations">examinations</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="ranking">ranking</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="face">face</span> <span word="crises">crises</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="agony">agony</span>. <span word="Meanwhile">Meanwhile</span>, <span word="all">all</span> <span word="sorts">sorts</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="intricate">intricate</span> <span word="affairs">affairs</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="happen">happen</span> <span word="between">between</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="classmates">classmates</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="youth">youth</span>, <span word="puberty">puberty</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="fill">fill</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="unrealized">unrealized</span> <span word="desires">desires</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="send">send</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="deeper">deeper</span> <span word="perplexity">perplexity</span>.</p><p>鸟瞰人生，可略有领悟。上学时，有获得知识的乐趣，便有做功课、考试、排名次的危机与痛苦。同样，也有同学间相处的融合与纠结。青年时，春心萌动，幻想联翩，难以实现，亦难免陷入困扰。</p><p><span word="Entering">Entering</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="actually">actually</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="center">center</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="contradictions">contradictions</span>—<span word="the">the</span> <span word="matching">matching</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="different">different</span> <span word="personalities">personalities</span>, <span word="enduring">enduring</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="family">family</span> <span word="members">members</span>, <span word="children">children</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="schooling">schooling</span>, <span word="financial">financial</span> <span word="management">management</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="on">on</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="fall">fall</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span> <span word="crisis">crisis</span>. <span word="As">As</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="age">age</span>, <span word="your">your</span> <span word="health">health</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="deteriorate">deteriorate</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="various">various</span> <span word="troubles">troubles</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="career">career</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="family">family</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="gradually">gradually</span> <span word="emerge">emerge</span>. <span word="Mid">Mid</span>-<span word="life">life</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="old">old</span>-<span word="age">age</span> <span word="crisis">crisis</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="follow">follow</span>, <span word="leading">leading</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="eternity">eternity</span>.</p><p>结婚之后，实际进入了更多的矛盾之中；思想的落差、相处的困难、子女的教育、财务的争执等等，也会陷入婚姻危机。随后，年龄愈大，健康愈差，事业、家庭中的许多潜在矛盾会日益突出，因而又会有中年危机和老年危机，直至步入死亡。</p>
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