我思故我在：不要成为你思想的奴隶
<p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="speak">speak</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="holding">holding</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="stories">stories</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="childhood">childhood</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="feeling">feeling</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="enough">enough</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="remember">remember</span> <span word="scenarios">scenarios</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="neglected">neglected</span>, <span word="not">not</span> <span word="having">having</span> "<span word="good">good</span> <span word="enough">enough</span>" <span word="grades">grades</span>, <span word="not">not</span> <span word="feeling">feeling</span> <span word="pretty">pretty</span> <span word="enough">enough</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="what">what</span>? <span word="They">They</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="taken">taken</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="stories">stories</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="let">let</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="grow">grow</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="reality">reality</span>. <span word="How">How</span>? <span word="By">By</span> <span word="continually">continually</span> <span word="watering">watering</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="thought">thought</span> <span word="seeds">seeds</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="beliefs">beliefs</span>.</p><p>我同许多打小就感觉自己不够好的人们交谈。他们一直记得自己被忽视、取得“不够好”成绩、自我感觉不够好的场景。而你可否知晓，他们把这些事往心里去，并使之成为现实。怎么做到的？还不是他们不断让自身的想法在他人看法的浇灌下萌发。</p><p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="remember">remember</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="instance">instance</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="probably">probably</span> 10 <span word="and">and</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="mother">mother</span> <span word="told">told</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="booger">booger</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="nose">nose</span>. <span word="She">She</span> <span word="told">told</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="kindness">kindness</span> <span word="before">before</span> <span word="leaving">leaving</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="house">house</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="still">still</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="felt">felt</span> <span word="crushed">crushed</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="simple">simple</span> <span word="instance">instance</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="stuck">stuck</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="me">me</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="let">let</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="grow">grow</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="watering">watering</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="fear">fear</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="thoughts">thoughts</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="enough">enough</span>, <span word="an">an</span> <span word="embarrassment">embarrassment</span>, <span word="even">even</span> <span word="ugly">ugly</span>.</p><p>我记得曾经在我十岁左右，我母亲告诉我鼻子中有个鼻屎。她在出门前善意地将这告知于我。可我仍然感到崩溃。这件小事一直膈应着我。我任它发展成恐惧、自我感觉不够好、尴尬甚至是认为自己长得丑的想法。</p><p><span word="No">No</span> <span word="more">more</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="allow">allow</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="seed">seed</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="grow">grow</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="longer">longer</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="responsibility">responsibility</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="thoughts">thoughts</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="responsibility">responsibility</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="blame">blame</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="others">others</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="choose">choose</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="thoughts">thoughts</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="choose">choose</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="myself">myself</span>.</p>
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