5件小事，同事爱上你
<p><span word="Are">Are</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="nice">nice</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="co">co</span>-<span word="workers">workers</span>? <span word="Before">Before</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="answer">answer</span>, <span word="take">take</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="moment">moment</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="it">it</span>. <span word="How">How</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="ask">ask</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="personal">personal</span> <span word="questions">questions</span> <span word="before">before</span> <span word="jumping">jumping</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="request">request</span>? <span word="When">When</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="last">last</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="spoke">spoke</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="sitting">sitting</span> <span word="next">next</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="anything">anything</span> <span word="besides">besides</span> <span word="work">work</span>?</p><p>你在同事之间有没有亲和力呢？在你回答之前，细想一下，在提出工作要求之前，你会与他们寒暄个人生活吗？上一次与坐在你旁边的人谈论除工作以外的事情的时间是什么时候？</p><p><span word="After">After</span> <span word="reading">reading</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="New">New</span> <span word="York">York</span> <span word="Times">Times</span> <span word="article">article</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="bosses">bosses</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="nice">nice</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="employees">employees</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="work">work</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="got">got</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="thinking">thinking</span> — <span word="maybe">maybe</span>, <span word="I">I</span>'<span word="m">m</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="nice">nice</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="am">am</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="taking">taking</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="extra">extra</span> <span word="effort">effort</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="kind">kind</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="co">co</span>-<span word="workers">workers</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="contributing">contributing</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="negative">negative</span> <span word="atmosphere">atmosphere</span>.</p><p>读了《纽约时报》上一篇关于老板在工作中没时间体恤员工的文章后，让我联想到——也许，我并没有我想象中那么有亲和力。在没有努力尝试对我的同事温柔以待的情况下，我很可能还带去了负能量。</p><p><span word="According">According</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="article">article</span>, “<span word="Rudeness">Rudeness</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="behavior">behavior</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="grown">grown</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="last">last</span> <span word="decades">decades</span>, <span word="particularly">particularly</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="work">work</span>...<span word="insensitive">insensitive</span> <span word="interactions">interactions</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="whittling">whittling</span> <span word="away">away</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="people">people</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="health">health</span>, <span word="performance">performance</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="souls">souls</span>.” <span word="I">I</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="I">I</span>'<span word="m">m</span> <span word="definitely">definitely</span> <span word="guilty">guilty</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="caught">caught</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="sometimes">sometimes</span> <span word="barely">barely</span> <span word="acknowledge">acknowledge</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="trying">trying</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="me">me</span> — <span word="instead">instead</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="nod">nod</span> <span word="along">along</span>, <span word="thinking">thinking</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="to">to</span>-<span word="do">do</span> <span word="list">list</span>.</p>
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