恋爱达人告诉你：异地恋好处多多
<p><span word="My">My</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="long">long</span>-<span word="distance">distance</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="didn">didn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="out">out</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="am">am</span> <span word="sure">sure</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="again">again</span>.<span word="I">I</span>’<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="admit">admit</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="used">used</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="looked">looked</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="long">long</span>-<span word="distance">distance</span> <span word="couples">couples</span> <span word="absolutely">absolutely</span> <span word="dumbfounded">dumbfounded</span>.“<span word="Why">Why</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span>? <span word="You">You</span> <span word="barely">barely</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="other">other</span>, <span word="yet">yet</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="jumping">jumping</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="pretty">pretty</span> <span word="serious">serious</span> <span word="commitment">commitment</span>?”</p><p>我第一次异地恋没有结果，但我确定我愿意再来一次异地恋。我承认我过去看到异地恋的情侣绝对会很震惊。“为什么要那样对待自己？你们都不怎么了解对方，就急于把自己认真地托付给对方？”</p><p><span word="But">But</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="surprise">surprise</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="found">found</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="couple">couple</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="long">long</span>-<span word="distance">distance</span> <span word="dating">dating</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="made">made</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="worth">worth</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="trouble">trouble</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="beginning">beginning</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>.</p><p>但令我自己惊讶的是，我发现了有几点原因使得异地恋虽然初期会遇到一些麻烦，但仍值得拥有。</p><p><span word="Long">Long</span> <span word="distance">distance</span> <span word="forces">forces</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="answer">answer</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="questions">questions</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="save">save</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="lot">lot</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="time">time</span>:</p><p>想要异地恋不得不先回答两个问题，这样能节省很多时间：</p><p>1. <span word="Do">Do</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="trust">trust</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="her">her</span>?</p><p>你信任<span word="TA">TA</span>吗？</p><p>2. <span word="Do">Do</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="trust">trust</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span>?</p><p>你信任你自己吗？</p><p><span word="It">It</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="easy">easy</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="ignore">ignore</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="questions">questions</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="boyfriend">boyfriend</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="girlfriend">girlfriend</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="lack">lack</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="space">space</span> <span word="between">between</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="allow">allow</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="test">test</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="trust">trust</span>.</p><p>男女朋友总是腻在一起，真的很容易忽略掉这些问题，因为你们之间没有距离来测验你们之间的信任。</p>
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