教你如何正确地请教他人
<p><span word="What">What</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="tricky">tricky</span> <span word="problem">problem</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="work">work</span>? <span word="Or">Or</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="while">while</span> <span word="studying">studying</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="came">came</span> <span word="across">across</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="sentence">sentence</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="notes">notes</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="couldn">couldn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="quite">quite</span> <span word="understand">understand</span>? <span word="Or">Or</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="simply">simply</span> <span word="lost">lost</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="city">city</span>?</p><p>在工作中遇到了棘手的问题，你会怎么办？做功课看笔记时遇到不明白的句子，你又会怎么做？或者仅仅是在某个陌生的城市迷了路，你要怎么做？</p><p><span word="When">When</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="stuck">stuck</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="ways">ways</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="move">move</span> <span word="forward">forward</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="spend">spend</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="effort">effort</span> <span word="brainstorming">brainstorming</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="answers">answers</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="library">library</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="peruse">peruse</span> <span word="books">books</span>. <span word="Or">Or</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="consult">consult</span> <span word="Google">Google</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="Web">Web</span>-<span word="based">based</span> <span word="resources">resources</span>.</p><p>这时候，有许多方法可供选择，比如：自己花时间和精力，通过 “头脑风暴”找到答案；或者去图书馆翻翻书；也可以去问问谷歌或者借助其他互联网资源找到解决之道。</p><p><span word="But">But</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="thing">thing</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="avoid">avoid</span> – <span word="asking">asking</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="advice">advice</span>. <span word="There">There</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="reasons">reasons</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="reluctance">reluctance</span>. <span word="For">For</span> <span word="one">one</span>, <span word="we">we</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="bother">bother</span> <span word="others">others</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="must">must</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="busy">busy</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="problems">problems</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="solve">solve</span>.</p><p>但是，有种方法却总被我们忽视——请教他人。我们不愿开口的原因有很多，比如不愿打扰他人，因为我们知道每个人都很忙，都有自己的问题需要解决。</p><p><span word="However">However</span>, <span word="recent">recent</span> <span word="research">research</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="shown">shown</span> <span word="fears">fears</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="appearing">appearing</span> <span word="incompetent">incompetent</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="asking">asking</span> <span word="advice">advice</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="totally">totally</span> <span word="misplaced">misplaced</span>. <span word="Far">Far</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="inconveniencing">inconveniencing</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="annoying">annoying</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="advice">advice</span>-<span word="giver">giver</span>, <span word="asking">asking</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="advice">advice</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="smarter">smarter</span>.</p>
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