察言观色：捕捉肢体语言的10个窍门
<p>1. <span word="Worry">Worry</span>, <span word="surprise">surprise</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="fear">fear</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="cause">cause</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="raise">raise</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="eyebrows">eyebrows</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="discomfort">discomfort</span>. <span word="So">So</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="compliments">compliments</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="hairstyle">hairstyle</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="outfit">outfit</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="raised">raised</span> <span word="eyebrows">eyebrows</span>, <span word="that">that</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="sincere">sincere</span>.</p><p>担忧、吃惊或是恐惧都能使得人们不自然地眉头上挑。因而要是有人在赞美你的新发型或是服装时眉毛上挑着，那他也许并不是在真心赞美。</p><p>2. <span word="Whether">Whether</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="not">not</span>, <span word="your">your</span> <span word="vocal">vocal</span> <span word="range">range</span> <span word="shows">shows</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="interest">interest</span>. "<span word="Once">Once</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span> <span word="begins">begins</span>, <span word="besotted">besotted</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="slip">slip</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="sing">sing</span>-<span word="songy">songy</span> <span word="voices">voices</span>," <span word="Psychology">Psychology</span> <span word="Today">Today</span> <span word="reports">reports</span>, "<span word="while">while</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="drop">drop</span> <span word="theirs">theirs</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="octave">octave</span>."</p><p>不管你是否对此知悉，你声线的变化反映出兴趣。《今日心理学》（<span word="Psychology">Psychology</span> <span word="Today">Today</span>，一本关于心理学的杂志，也有同名网站）报导称：“一旦人们开始交谈，动情的女人们说话会不经意地让声线动听，而男人们则会把音低八度。”</p><p>3. <span word="When">When</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="eyes">eyes</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="sets">sets</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="arousal">arousal</span> <span word="state">state</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="body">body</span>. <span word="A">A</span> <span word="leering">leering</span> <span word="stranger">stranger</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="evoke">evoke</span> <span word="fear">fear</span>, <span word="while">while</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="stare">stare</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="lover">lover</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="kindle">kindle</span> <span word="romance">romance</span>.</p><p>当你注视某人的双眼，这能激活对方身体的某种状态。一个陌生人色眯眯地瞧你，能引发恐惧。而爱人的凝视则激发浪漫。</p><p>4. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="attempt">attempt</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="avoid">avoid</span> <span word="looking">looking</span> <span word="shifty">shifty</span>-<span word="eyed">eyed</span>, <span word="some">some</span> <span word="liars">liars</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="purposefully">purposefully</span> <span word="hold">hold</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="gaze">gaze</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="touch">touch</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="long">long</span>, <span word="so">so</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="slightly">slightly</span> <span word="uncomfortable">uncomfortable</span>.</p><p>为了避免被人看出目光闪烁，一些说谎者会故意让他们的目光停留过长时间，因而这让人有些不舒服。</p>
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