如何才能成为别人羡慕的幸运儿
<p><span word="Even">Even</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="superstitious">superstitious</span>,<span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="hard">hard</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="ascribe">ascribe</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="people">people</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="fortune">fortune</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="luck">luck</span>. <span word="Everyone">Everyone</span> <span word="knows">knows</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="seems">seems</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="right">right</span> <span word="place">place</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="right">right</span> <span word="time">time</span>, <span word="getting">getting</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="fair">fair</span> <span word="share">share</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="promotions">promotions</span>, <span word="raises">raises</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="desks">desks</span> <span word="nearthe">nearthe</span> <span word="window">window</span>. <span word="So">So</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="folks">folks</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="it">it</span>?</p><p>纵然你不迷信，还是很容易把别人的成功归咎于幸运。我们知道，有的人总是能够做好所有的事情，在升职、加薪方面比一般人得到更多的机会，还有得到靠近窗口的办公桌。那么这些人是如何做到的呢？</p><p>1.<span word="Observe">Observe</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="surroundings">surroundings</span>.</p><p>敏锐观察。</p><p><span word="One">One</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="ironies">ironies</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="working">working</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="hardest">hardest</span> <span word="working">working</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="usually">usually</span> <span word="havetheir">havetheir</span> <span word="heads">heads</span> <span word="down">down</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="eyes">eyes</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="page">page</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="admirable">admirable</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="ifyou">ifyou</span> <span word="allow">allow</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="develop">develop</span> <span word="tunnel">tunnel</span> <span word="vision">vision</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="won">won</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="notice">notice</span> <span word="opportunities">opportunities</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="present">present</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span>.</p><p>勤奋工作的人被讽刺说只会埋头于自己的那点工作上。他们是令人钦佩的，但是如果你仍然带有一孔之见，当机会来临的时候，你会错过它们。</p><p><span word="In">In</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="experiment">experiment</span> <span word="designed">designed</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="Richard">Richard</span> <span word="Wiseman">Wiseman</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="former">former</span> <span word="magician">magician</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="psychologist">psychologist</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="studies">studies</span> <span word="luck">luck</span>, <span word="he">he</span> <span word="asked">asked</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="self">self</span> <span word="identify">identify</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="lucky">lucky</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="unlucky">unlucky</span>. <span word="Then">Then</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="gave">gave</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="test">test</span> <span word="subjects">subjects</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="newspaper">newspaper</span>. "<span word="Countthe">Countthe</span> <span word="number">number</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="photographs">photographs</span> <span word="inside">inside</span>," <span word="he">he</span> <span word="told">told</span> <span word="them">them</span>.</p><p>曾做过魔术师并且专门研究幸运的心理学家，理查德·威斯曼（<span word="RichardWiseman">RichardWiseman</span>）设计了一个实验，在实验中，他让实验者把自己标识为幸运和不幸运两种。然后给他们测试用的报纸。“数一下里面有多少图片。”他告诉实验者。</p>
页:
[1]