孩子在潜移默化中向大人学习的三件事
<p><span word="Parenting">Parenting</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="job">job</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="occurs">occurs</span> 24 <span word="hours">hours</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="day">day</span>, 7 <span word="days">days</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="week">week</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="day">day</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="baby">baby</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="born">born</span> <span word="until">until</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="day">day</span> <span word="they">they</span>…<span word="well">well</span>, <span word="until">until</span> <span word="forever">forever</span>. <span word="A">A</span> <span word="parent">parent</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="job">job</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="done">done</span>. <span word="Parents">Parents</span> <span word="aren">aren</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="teaching">teaching</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="directly">directly</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="design">design</span> <span word="either">either</span>. <span word="Sure">Sure</span>, <span word="parents">parents</span> <span word="teach">teach</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="tie">tie</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="shoes">shoes</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="learn">learn</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="letters">letters</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="numbers">numbers</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="academic">academic</span> <span word="things">things</span>. <span word="Parents">Parents</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="choose">choose</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="teach">teach</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="religion">religion</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="favorite">favorite</span> <span word="TV">TV</span> <span word="show">show</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="book">book</span>. <span word="Children">Children</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="learn">learn</span> <span word="only">only</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="parents">parents</span> <span word="intend">intend</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="teach">teach</span> <span word="them">them</span>, <span word="however">however</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="fact">fact</span>, <span word="some">some</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="important">important</span> <span word="lessons">lessons</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="learning">learning</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="actually">actually</span> <span word="happen">happen</span> <span word="while">while</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="doing">doing</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="parenting">parenting</span>.</p><p>父母是一个全天、全年连轴转的职业，从孩子出生的那天直到……呃，直到永远。父母这一职业永远没有卸任的一天。父母总是没有用直接、或设计好的方式来教育孩子。当然，父母教他们的孩子系鞋带，学字母，学算术或其他学习方面的东西。父母也可能教会孩子信仰、陪他们看最喜欢的电视节目或者书籍。但是，孩子们并不是只有在父母打算教他们的时候才学习。事实上，一些人生中重要的课程不从家长教导中习得，而是从家长们的行为获得。</p><p><span word="Children">Children</span> <span word="learn">learn</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="handle">handle</span> <span word="stress">stress</span>, <span word="anxiety">anxiety</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="frustration">frustration</span>. <span word="When">When</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="upset">upset</span>, <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="yell">yell</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="scream">scream</span>, <span word="children">children</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="this">this</span>, <span word="even">even</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="yelling">yelling</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="screaming">screaming</span> <span word="isn">isn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="directed">directed</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="them">them</span>. <span word="Parents">Parents</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="high">high</span> <span word="strung">strung</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="raise">raise</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="high">high</span> <span word="strung">strung</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="well">well</span>. <span word="Of">Of</span> <span word="course">course</span>, <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="suppress">suppress</span> <span word="youremotions">youremotions</span>, <span word="your">your</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="learn">learn</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="that">that</span>, <span word="too">too</span>. <span word="Remembering">Remembering</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="little">little</span> <span word="eyes">eyes</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="watching">watching</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="important">important</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="parents">parents</span>. <span word="Express">Express</span> <span word="anger">anger</span>, <span word="frustration">frustration</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="anxiety">anxiety</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="doing">doing</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="constructive">constructive</span> <span word="ways">ways</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="helping">helping</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="child">child</span> <span word="understand">understand</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="feeling">feeling</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="come">come</span> <span word="along">along</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="cause">cause</span> <span word="problems">problems</span>.</p>
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