12年婚姻 我们如何顺利度过七年之痒
<p><span word="In">In</span> 12 <span word="years">years</span>, <span word="my">my</span> <span word="wife">wife</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="covered">covered</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="lot">lot</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="ground">ground</span>.</p><p>我和我的妻子已经从婚姻生活中学到了很多内容。</p><p><span word="We">We</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="married">married</span> <span word="before">before</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="graduated">graduated</span> <span word="college">college</span>. <span word="Pregnant">Pregnant</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="child">child</span> <span word="shortly">shortly</span> <span word="after">after</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="finished">finished</span> <span word="college">college</span>. <span word="New">New</span> <span word="baby">baby</span>. <span word="Two">Two</span> <span word="miscarriages">miscarriages</span>. <span word="Four">Four</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="children">children</span>. <span word="When">When</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="youngest">youngest</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="born">born</span>, <span word="we">we</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="five">five</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="under">under</span> 8 <span word="years">years</span> <span word="old">old</span>.</p><p>我们是在我大学毕业之前结婚。婚后不久我的妻子就怀上了我们的第一个孩子。我大学毕业那年孩子顺利出生了，之前经历了两次流产，又生了四个孩子。最小的孩子出生时，我们有了5个8岁以下的孩子。</p><p><span word="Owned">Owned</span> <span word="four">four</span> <span word="homes">homes</span>. <span word="Rented">Rented</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="house">house</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="apartment">apartment</span> <span word="somewhere">somewhere</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="between">between</span>. <span word="Five">Five</span> <span word="different">different</span> <span word="jobs">jobs</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="four">four</span> <span word="different">different</span> <span word="companies">companies</span>. <span word="Lived">Lived</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="four">four</span> <span word="cities">cities</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="ways">ways</span>, <span word="life">life</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="fast">fast</span>-<span word="forward">forward</span>. <span word="We">We</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="drinking">drinking</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="fire">fire</span> <span word="hose">hose</span>.</p><p>拥有过四个家，租过一个房子、租过一间公寓。在四家公司做过五份工作，在四个城市居住过。在生活的许多方面，日子就这样一天天地过着。我们一直饮用消防水带中的水。</p><p><span word="In">In</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="course">course</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="these">these</span> 12 <span word="years">years</span>, <span word="we">we</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="learned">learned</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="great">great</span> <span word="deal">deal</span>. <span word="About">About</span> <span word="ourselves">ourselves</span>. <span word="About">About</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="other">other</span>. <span word="About">About</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="importance">importance</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="why">why</span> <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="worth">worth</span> <span word="fighting">fighting</span> <span word="for">for</span>.</p><p>在这12年的光阴里，我们都学到了很多东西，无论是自身还是彼此，懂得了婚姻的重要性，和值得为之奋斗的原因。</p><p><span word="We">We</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="young">young</span>, <span word="in">in</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="ready">ready</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="said">said</span> <span word="yes">yes</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="early">early</span> <span word="twenties">twenties</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="necessarily">necessarily</span> <span word="mean">mean</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="prepared">prepared</span>. 12 <span word="years">years</span> <span word="later">later</span>, <span word="here">here</span> <span word="are">are</span> 12 <span word="things">things</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="clarified">clarified</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span>:</p>
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