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<p><span word="Can">Can</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="change">change</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="personality">personality</span> <span word="significantly">significantly</span>? <span word="For">For</span> <span word="example">example</span>, <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="shy">shy</span>, <span word="can">can</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="turn">turn</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="extrovert">extrovert</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="gets">gets</span> <span word="stage">stage</span> <span word="fright">fright</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="speaking">speaking</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="public">public</span>?</p><p>你能彻底改变自己的性格么？比如，从一个害羞之人变成一个在公众面前登台演讲从不怯场的外向之人。</p><p><span word="It">It</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="certainly">certainly</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="easy">easy</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="experts">experts</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="possible">possible</span>.</p><p>显然，这并非易事，但是专家说这也不是天方夜谭。</p><p><span word="First">First</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="all">all</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="stay">stay</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="same">same</span> <span word="person">person</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="Wall">Wall</span> <span word="Street">Street</span> <span word="Journal">Journal</span> <span word="reports">reports</span> <span word="several">several</span> <span word="research">research</span> <span word="studies">studies</span> <span word="conducted">conducted</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="past">past</span> <span word="few">few</span> <span word="years">years</span> <span word="show">show</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="person">person</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="personality">personality</span> <span word="naturally">naturally</span> <span word="changes">changes</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="response">response</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="events">events</span> <span word="such">such</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="entering">entering</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="committed">committed</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="advancing">advancing</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="career">career</span>.</p><p>首先，你需要不拘泥于过去的自己。《华尔街日报》报道了在过去几年进行的一些研究，研究发现，人的性格会随着经历一些人生大事而不断变化，比如一段稳定感情的开始、事业的晋升。</p><p><span word="From">From</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="ages">ages</span> <span word="of">of</span> 20 <span word="to">to</span> 65, <span word="people">people</span> <span word="report">report</span> <span word="increases">increases</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="positive">positive</span> <span word="traits">traits</span>. <span word="Most">Most</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="tend">tend</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="agreeable">agreeable</span>, <span word="more">more</span> <span word="responsible">responsible</span>, <span word="more">more</span> <span word="emotionally">emotionally</span> <span word="stable">stable</span>. <span word="Their">Their</span> <span word="personalities">personalities</span> <span word="improve">improve</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="mature">mature</span>.</p><p>在25至65岁之间，人们性格中积极的一面会不断增强。大多数人都会变得更加亲切、更具责任心、感情更专一。性格随着人的成熟而日臻完善。</p><p><span word="When">When</span> <span word="researchers">researchers</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="about">about</span> “<span word="personality">personality</span>”, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="mean">mean</span> <span word="a">a</span> “<span word="characteristic">characteristic</span> <span word="pattern">pattern</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="thinking">thinking</span>, <span word="feeling">feeling</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="behaving">behaving</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="consistent">consistent</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="across">across</span> <span word="situations">situations</span>,” <span word="says">says</span> <span word="Christopher">Christopher</span> <span word="Soto">Soto</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="research">research</span> <span word="psychologist">psychologist</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="Colby">Colby</span> <span word="College">College</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="Maine">Maine</span>, <span word="US">US</span>. <span word="Soto">Soto</span> <span word="told">told</span> <span word="The">The</span> <span word="Wall">Wall</span> <span word="Street">Street</span> <span word="Journal">Journal</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="personality">personality</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="about">about</span> 50 <span word="percent">percent</span> <span word="innate">innate</span> <span word="and">and</span> 50 <span word="percent">percent</span> <span word="learned">learned</span>.</p>
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