七年之痒理论被推翻了：应该是十年之痒
<p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="seven">seven</span> <span word="year">year</span> <span word="itch">itch</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="psychological">psychological</span> <span word="theory">theory</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="happiness">happiness</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="couples">couples</span> <span word="starts">starts</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="deteriorate">deteriorate</span> <span word="after">after</span> <span word="seven">seven</span> <span word="years">years</span> <span word="together">together</span>, <span word="increasing">increasing</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="chances">chances</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="break">break</span>-<span word="up">up</span>.</p><p>心理学认为七年之痒是幸福夫妻在七年的相处之后关系开始恶化，并且可能导致关系破裂的一道坎。</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="phrase">phrase</span> <span word="became">became</span> <span word="world">world</span>-<span word="famous">famous</span> <span word="after">after</span> <span word="Marilyn">Marilyn</span> <span word="Monroe">Monroe</span> <span word="starred">starred</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="film">film</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="same">same</span> <span word="name">name</span> <span word="in">in</span> 1955, <span word="where">where</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="plays">plays</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="attractive">attractive</span> <span word="actress">actress</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="becomes">becomes</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="focus">focus</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="married">married</span> <span word="man">man</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="affections">affections</span>.</p><p>这个词语在1955年玛丽莲·梦露（<span word="Marilyn">Marilyn</span> <span word="Monroe">Monroe</span>）主演的同名电影后闻名于世。在该片中，梦露饰演了一位被已婚男子深深着迷的富有魅力的女演员。</p><p><span word="But">But</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="research">research</span> <span word="shows">shows</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="psychologists">psychologists</span> <span word="got">got</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span> - <span word="the">the</span> <span word="point">point</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="couple">couple</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="unhappy">unhappy</span>, <span word="therefore">therefore</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="stray">stray</span>, <span word="is">is</span> <span word="actually">actually</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="ten">ten</span>-<span word="year">year</span> <span word="mark">mark</span>.</p><p>但是新的研究证明心理学家们搞错了——在婚姻中，一对夫妻相处最不愉快也最容易关系破裂的时间是第十年。</p><p><span word="A">A</span> <span word="study">study</span> <span word="involving">involving</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="than">than</span> 2000 <span word="women">women</span> <span word="born">born</span> <span word="between">between</span> 1957 <span word="and">and</span> 1964 <span word="questioned">questioned</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="feelings">feelings</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span> <span word="over">over</span> 35 <span word="years">years</span>.</p><p>该项研究由超过2000名出生于1957和1964年之间的妇女共同参与，主要询问她们关于在逾35年的婚姻生活中的感受。</p><p><span word="During">During</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="interviews">interviews</span>, <span word="students">students</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="Brigham">Brigham</span> <span word="Young">Young</span> <span word="University">University</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="Utah">Utah</span> <span word="found">found</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="thirds">thirds</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="marriages">marriages</span>, <span word="happiness">happiness</span> <span word="started">started</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="high">high</span> <span word="levels">levels</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="then">then</span> <span word="steadily">steadily</span> <span word="declined">declined</span>.</p>
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