致真爱追寻者的一封公开信
<p><span word="Dear">Dear</span> <span word="True">True</span> <span word="Love">Love</span> <span word="Seeker">Seeker</span>,</p><p>亲爱的真爱寻求者，</p><p><span word="We">We</span> <span word="must">must</span> <span word="begin">begin</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="personal">personal</span> <span word="definition">definition</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="TRUE">TRUE</span> <span word="LOVE">LOVE</span>. <span word="Without">Without</span> <span word="that">that</span>, <span word="your">your</span> <span word="search">search</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="pointless">pointless</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="roundabout">roundabout</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="feasible">feasible</span> <span word="exit">exit</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="journey">journey</span>. <span word="Don">Don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="race">race</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="dictionary">dictionary</span>, <span word="as">as</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="definition">definition</span> <span word="lies">lies</span> <span word="within">within</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="philosophy">philosophy</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="experience">experience</span>.</p><p>我们必须从你们个人对真爱的定义开始。没了它，你的寻求便毫无意义，如同环形绕道的旅途没有出口可走。不要去，因为这定义就在你的人生哲学和经历之中。</p><p><span word="Our">Our</span> <span word="adult">adult</span> <span word="happiness">happiness</span> <span word="lies">lies</span> <span word="rooted">rooted</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="soil">soil</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="childhood">childhood</span>. <span word="Instinctively">Instinctively</span>, <span word="we">we</span> <span word="bonded">bonded</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="mothers">mothers</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="survival">survival</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="eventually">eventually</span> <span word="understood">understood</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="protective">protective</span> <span word="potential">potential</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="fathers">fathers</span>. <span word="All">All</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="agree">agree</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="basis">basis</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="stems">stems</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="early">early</span> <span word="interactions">interactions</span>. <span word="Rather">Rather</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="bandy">bandy</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="countless">countless</span> <span word="theories">theories</span> <span word="concerning">concerning</span> “<span word="mommy">mommy</span>” <span word="and">and</span> “<span word="daddy">daddy</span>” <span word="issues">issues</span>, <span word="let">let</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="begin">begin</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="idea">idea</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="come">come</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="terms">terms</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="past">past</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="eager">eager</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="move">move</span> <span word="forward">forward</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="loving">loving</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>.</p><p>我们作为成人的幸福，植根于孩提时的土壤。为求生存，我们本能地和妈妈亲近，而后终于懂得了父亲对我们的保护。大家都知道，我们的爱，来源于这些早期的互动。与其散播关于“妈咪”和“爸比”问题的无数理论，不如让我们以这样的想法开始：你已经能够和自己的过去共处，并且渴望前进步入你自己爱的关系。</p>
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