为什么给男友打扫房间不能收费
<p><span word="About">About</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="year">year</span> <span word="ago">ago</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="moved">moved</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="boyfriend">boyfriend</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="house">house</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="city">city</span>. <span word="I">I</span>’<span word="m">m</span> <span word="renting">renting</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="old">old</span> <span word="house">house</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="income">income</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="work">work</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="pay">pay</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="partner">partner</span> $100 <span word="each">each</span> <span word="month">month</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="cover">cover</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="utility">utility</span> <span word="expenses">expenses</span>. <span word="He">He</span> <span word="pays">pays</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="cleaning">cleaning</span> <span word="person">person</span> $160 <span word="a">a</span> <span word="month">month</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="clean">clean</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="house">house</span> <span word="twice">twice</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="month">month</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="am">am</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="convinced">convinced</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="house">house</span> <span word="gets">gets</span> <span word="cleaned">cleaned</span> <span word="well">well</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="plenty">plenty</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="free">free</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="anyway">anyway</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="offered">offered</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="clean">clean</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="house">house</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="lieu">lieu</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="money">money</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="pay">pay</span> <span word="him">him</span>, <span word="which">which</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="save">save</span> <span word="him">him</span> $60 <span word="and">and</span> <span word="me">me</span> $100. <span word="He">He</span> <span word="refuses">refuses</span>, <span word="claiming">claiming</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="paying">paying</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="clean">clean</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="house">house</span>. <span word="Would">Would</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span>? <span word="NAME">NAME</span> <span word="WITHHELD">WITHHELD</span>, <span word="SANTA">SANTA</span> <span word="FE">FE</span></p><p>大约一年前，我搬到一个新城市，住进了我男朋友家里。我正在找工作，所以把自己的旧房子租了出去，获得一点收入。每个月我给男朋友100美元作为生活费。他付160美元让清洁工每月打扫两次房子。我觉得房子打扫得也不是很干净，而且反正我有大量空闲时间，所以我提议自己打扫房子，免交日用品费。这样他能省60美元，我能省100美元。但是他拒绝了，说那样的话，感觉像是他在付钱让我打扫房子。我的提议真的很有问题吗？匿名，圣达菲</p><p><span word="It">It</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span>. <span word="It">It</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="shrewd">shrewd</span> <span word="request">request</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="behalf">behalf</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="overlooking">overlooking</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="real">real</span> <span word="reason">reason</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="boyfriend">boyfriend</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="this">this</span>: <span word="It">It</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="uncomfortable">uncomfortable</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="home">home</span>. <span word="It">It</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="strange">strange</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="pay">pay</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="romantically">romantically</span> <span word="involved">involved</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="you">you</span>, <span word="even">even</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="compensation">compensation</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="somewhat">somewhat</span> <span word="indirect">indirect</span>. <span word="Furthermore">Furthermore</span>, <span word="giving">giving</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="responsibility">responsibility</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="place">place</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="awkward">awkward</span> <span word="position">position</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="end">end</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="doing">doing</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="subpar">subpar</span> <span word="job">job</span> — <span word="he">he</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="fire">fire</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="cleaning">cleaning</span> <span word="person">person</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="can">can</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="fire">fire</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="girlfriend">girlfriend</span>.</p>
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