侧耳倾听 9招成就更棒的倾听者
<p>9 <span word="Things">Things</span> <span word="Good">Good</span> <span word="Listeners">Listeners</span> <span word="Do">Do</span> <span word="Differently">Differently</span></p><p><span word="Despite">Despite</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="taught">taught</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="importance">importance</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="listening">listening</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="young">young</span> <span word="age">age</span> -- <span word="think">think</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="teachers">teachers</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="asked">asked</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="to">to</span> "<span word="put">put</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="listening">listening</span> <span word="ears">ears</span> <span word="on">on</span>" -- <span word="the">the</span> <span word="truth">truth</span> <span word="is">is</span>, <span word="most">most</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="aren">aren</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="skill">skill</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="ought">ought</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span>.</p><p>尽管从小时候起就被教导倾听的重要性——想想多少老师让你“竖起耳朵听”——真相是，我们大多数人都不擅长本应擅长的技能。</p><p><span word="Research">Research</span> <span word="shows">shows</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="average">average</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="listens">listens</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="only">only</span> 25 <span word="percent">percent</span> <span word="efficiency">efficiency</span> -- <span word="meaning">meaning</span> <span word="there">there</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="lot">lot</span> <span word="we">we</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="letting">letting</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="ear">ear</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="other">other</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="listening">listening</span> <span word="expert">expert</span> <span word="Paul">Paul</span> <span word="Sacco">Sacco</span>, <span word="Ph">Ph</span>.<span word="D">D</span>., <span word="an">an</span> <span word="assistant">assistant</span> <span word="professor">professor</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="University">University</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Maryland">Maryland</span> <span word="School">School</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Social">Social</span> <span word="Work">Work</span>, <span word="explains">explains</span>, <span word="there">there</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="few">few</span> <span word="simple">simple</span> <span word="habits">habits</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="set">set</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="real">real</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="listeners">listeners</span> <span word="apart">apart</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="rest">rest</span>.</p><p>研究显示一般人倾听的效率只有25%——这意味着我们让很多东西一耳进一耳出了。然而，正如倾听方面的专家保罗·萨科博士所讲，讲真正好的倾听者和其他人区分开的，只有几个简单的习惯。保罗现在马里兰大学社会工作学院担任助理教授。</p>
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