如何找到“达西先生” 简•奥斯丁的恋爱指南
<p><span word="A">A</span> <span word="lot">lot</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="changed">changed</span> <span word="since">since</span> <span word="Jane">Jane</span> <span word="Austen">Austen</span> <span word="wrote">wrote</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="women">women</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="quest">quest</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="perfect">perfect</span> <span word="match">match</span> <span word="in">in</span> 19<span word="th">th</span> <span word="century">century</span> <span word="Britain">Britain</span>.</p><p>世事变迁，沧海桑田，如今的时代与简·奥斯丁所描绘的那个女子们寻觅完美伴侣的19世纪的英国已经大不一样了。</p><p><span word="But">But</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="fan">fan</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="writer">writer</span> <span word="believes">believes</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Austen">Austen</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="lessons">lessons</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="still">still</span> <span word="ring">ring</span> <span word="true">true</span> <span word="today">today</span>. <span word="She">She</span> <span word="reveals">reveals</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="advice">advice</span> <span word="applicable">applicable</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="Regency">Regency</span>-<span word="era">era</span> <span word="courting">courting</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="relevant">relevant</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="Tinder">Tinder</span> <span word="generation">generation</span>...</p><p>但是作家的一位粉丝相信，奥斯丁教导我们的许多关于爱情的知识在当今仍然适用。这位女粉丝告诉我们，那些本来适用于摄政时期的恋爱原则仍与今天的“陌陌时代”息息相关。</p><p><span word="Rule">Rule</span> <span word="One">One</span>: <span word="Be">Be</span> <span word="A">A</span> <span word="Woman">Woman</span>, <span word="Not">Not</span> <span word="A">A</span> <span word="Girl">Girl</span></p><p>原则一：做一个女人，而不是小女孩</p><p><span word="In">In</span> <span word="Persuasion">Persuasion</span>, <span word="Austen">Austen</span> <span word="shows">shows</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="womanly">womanly</span> <span word="fortitude">fortitude</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Anne">Anne</span> <span word="Elliot">Elliot</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="far">far</span> <span word="superior">superior</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="girlish">girlish</span> <span word="shenanigans">shenanigans</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Louisa">Louisa</span> <span word="Musgrove">Musgrove</span>. <span word="Louisa">Louisa</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="flirtation">flirtation</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="Captain">Captain</span> <span word="Wentworth">Wentworth</span> <span word="does">does</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="work">work</span>, <span word="either">either</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="win">win</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="heart">heart</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="keep">keep</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="dignity">dignity</span> - <span word="little">little</span> <span word="wonder">wonder</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="ends">ends</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="novel">novel</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="literally">literally</span> <span word="having">having</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="head">head</span> <span word="examined">examined</span>!</p><p>在《劝导》一书中，奥斯丁告诉我们，安·艾略特那种女性的坚毅品质远优于路易莎·姆斯格雷夫那样的小女生伎俩。路易莎对温特沃斯上尉的挑逗不起任何作用，她既没有赢得他的心，也没有保留住自己的尊严——难怪在小说的结尾作者真要给她做脑部检查！</p>
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