离婚者的教训：婚姻中最后悔的15件事
<p><span word="Divorce">Divorce</span> <span word="triggers">triggers</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="lot">lot</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="different">different</span> <span word="emotions">emotions</span>, <span word="everything">everything</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="sadness">sadness</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="regret">regret</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="cases">cases</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="split">split</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="precipitated">precipitated</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="factor">factor</span> <span word="outside">outside</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="cases">cases</span>, <span word="though">though</span>, <span word="couples">couples</span> <span word="ask">ask</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span> <span word="whether">whether</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="done">done</span> <span word="differently">differently</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="save">save</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>.</p><p><span word="With">With</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="mind">mind</span>, <span word="we">we</span> <span word="asked">asked</span> <span word="Huff">Huff</span>/<span word="Post">Post</span>50 <span word="divorced">divorced</span> <span word="readers">readers</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="biggest">biggest</span> <span word="mistakes">mistakes</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="made">made</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="marriages">marriages</span>. <span word="Some">Some</span> <span word="responses">responses</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="succinct">succinct</span>. "<span word="Getting">Getting</span> <span word="married">married</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="instincts">instincts</span> <span word="kept">kept</span> <span word="screaming">screaming</span> '<span word="NO">NO</span>!'" <span word="said">said</span> <span word="Nancy">Nancy</span> <span word="Jurney">Jurney</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="complex">complex</span>. "<span word="Not">Not</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="knowing">knowing</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="was">was</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="done">done</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="better">better</span> <span word="job">job</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="background">background</span>. <span word="Got">Got</span> <span word="married">married</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="June">June</span> <span word="of">of</span> 1986 <span word="and">and</span> <span word="divorce">divorce</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="final">final</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="December">December</span> 1986," <span word="said">said</span> <span word="Jessie">Jessie</span> <span word="Williams">Williams</span>. <span word="Take">Take</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="responses">responses</span> <span word="below">below</span>.</p><p>1. "<span word="We">We</span> <span word="stopped">stopped</span> <span word="putting">putting</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="first">first</span>; <span word="stopped">stopped</span> <span word="nurturing">nurturing</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>, <span word="dating">dating</span>. <span word="Simple">Simple</span> <span word="everyday">everyday</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="kissing">kissing</span>, <span word="holding">holding</span> <span word="hands">hands</span>, <span word="hugging">hugging</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="public">public</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="private">private</span> <span word="waned">waned</span>; <span word="growing">growing</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="separate">separate</span> <span word="directions">directions</span> <span word="and">and</span>/<span word="or">or</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="growing">growing</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="all">all</span>."</p><p>2. "<span word="Not">Not</span> <span word="giving">giving</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="respect">respect</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="admiration">admiration</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="looking">looking</span> <span word="for">for</span>. <span word="He">He</span> <span word="left">left</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="woman">woman</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="needed">needed</span> <span word="rescuing">rescuing</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="treated">treated</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="knight">knight</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="shining">shining</span> <span word="armor">armor</span>."</p><p>3. "<span word="Getting">Getting</span> <span word="married">married</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="did">did</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="share">share</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="religion">religion</span>, <span word="lifestyle">lifestyle</span>, <span word="diet">diet</span> -- <span word="especially">especially</span> <span word="diet">diet</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="eat">eat</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="same">same</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="sign">sign</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="enough">enough</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="common">common</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="diet">diet</span> <span word="sounds">sounds</span> <span word="trivial">trivial</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="it">it</span>, <span word="trying">trying</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="cook">cook</span> <span word="food">food</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="eat">eat</span> <span word="gets">gets</span> <span word="tiring">tiring</span>. <span word="So">So</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="stop">stop</span>. <span word="Men">Men</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="thing">thing</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="cooking">cooking</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="them">them</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="hear">hear</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="lot">lot</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="complaints">complaints</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="wives">wives</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="cook">cook</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="more">more</span>. <span word="With">With</span> <span word="me">me</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="got">got</span> <span word="tired">tired</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="cooking">cooking</span> <span word="food">food</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="eat">eat</span>. <span word="So">So</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="stopped">stopped</span>. <span word="He">He</span> <span word="took">took</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="personally">personally</span>. <span word="Just">Just</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="differences">differences</span>."</p>
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