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<p><span word="We">We</span> <span word="seek">seek</span> <span word="advice">advice</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="daily">daily</span> <span word="basis">basis</span>, <span word="on">on</span> <span word="everything">everything</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="grills">grills</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="burger">burger</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="town">town</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="handle">handle</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="sticky">sticky</span> <span word="situation">situation</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="coworker">coworker</span>. <span word="However">However</span>, <span word="many">many</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="fully">fully</span> <span word="appreciate">appreciate</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="powerful">powerful</span> <span word="requesting">requesting</span> <span word="guidance">guidance</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span>. <span word="Soliciting">Soliciting</span> <span word="advice">advice</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="arm">arm</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="information">information</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="didn">didn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="before">before</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="benefits">benefits</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="considered">considered</span>.</p><p>我们每天都会向他人寻求建议，小到如何制作一个美味的汉堡，大到就如何处理和同事糟糕的关系。不过，许多人都没有领悟到询问意见的好处。询问建议除了可以获取你所不知道的信息之外，还有一些你所不知道的作用。</p><p>1. <span word="Advisors">Advisors</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="more">more</span>.</p><p>1. 对方会更欣赏你。</p><p><span word="Being">Being</span> <span word="asked">asked</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="advice">advice</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="inherently">inherently</span> <span word="flattering">flattering</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="implicit">implicit</span> <span word="endorsement">endorsement</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="opinions">opinions</span>, <span word="values">values</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="expertise">expertise</span>. <span word="Furthermore">Furthermore</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="works">works</span> <span word="equally">equally</span> <span word="well">well</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="down">down</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="hierarchy">hierarchy</span> — <span word="subordinates">subordinates</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="delighted">delighted</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="empowered">empowered</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="requests">requests</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="insights">insights</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="superiors">superiors</span> <span word="appreciate">appreciate</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="deference">deference</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="authority">authority</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="experience">experience</span>.</p><p>被咨询意见在某种意义上是一种称赞，因为这是一种对我们的观点，价值观，以及专业技能的含蓄的认可。再者，这对于每一个阶层都受用——下属会因为被询问意见而感到快乐和被重视，上司会因为自己的权威和经验受到尊重。</p><p>2. <span word="Advisors">Advisors</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="able">able</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="perspective">perspective</span>.</p><p>2. 对方能够从你的角度分析事情。</p>
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