约会时我们这样发短信，结婚后我们这样发
<p>在我们结婚周年纪念日那一天，我丈夫将我们首次约会以来的所有短信整理成文档，作为礼物送给我。为庆祝我们结婚六周年，我准备把他送我的礼物升级。我浏览了自约会以来的所有这些短信，并将这些短信内容按时段从约会到订婚再到新婚进行对比。我开始比较六年前和如今我们短信中的所用的词汇。</p><p>首先可以看出，我丈夫特别喜欢使用“家”这个词。而我在二十出头的年纪，则更喜欢用一声招呼“嗨”来开始对话，并且我那时好像常常不对我丈夫使用问候语，但是他发短信跟我说的许多事情，我却很赞同。然后我又比较了开始约会时和去年我们之间的短信中那些特殊词汇的使用频次。</p><p>我们之间的交谈从一开始的“嗨，你好吗？”到“可以，看起来不错”。我们不再在短信中叫出对方的名字，我们也不再常常说“爱”。但有些词的使用却至始至终都保持相对稳定的频次，例如“家”和“晚餐”。</p><p><span word="Way">Way</span> <span word="back">back</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="October">October</span> 2008, <span word="my">my</span> <span word="now">now</span> <span word="husband">husband</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="went">went</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="date">date</span>. <span word="On">On</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="year">year</span> <span word="anniversary">anniversary</span>, <span word="his">his</span> <span word="gift">gift</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="Word">Word</span> <span word="doc">doc</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="text">text</span> <span word="messages">messages</span> <span word="since">since</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="date">date</span> (<span word="what">what</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="likes">likes</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="refer">refer</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="as">as</span> #<span word="thegiftofdata">thegiftofdata</span>). <span word="This">This</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="especially">especially</span> <span word="high">high</span> <span word="tech">tech</span> <span word="back">back</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="day">day</span> (<span word="given">given</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="both">both</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="feature">feature</span> <span word="phones">phones</span>) <span word="and">and</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="considered">considered</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="thoughtful">thoughtful</span> <span word="gift">gift</span> <span word="ever">ever</span> (<span word="given">given</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="both">both</span> <span word="nerds">nerds</span>).</p>
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