简单6招：从此陌生人变朋友
<p><span word="It">It</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="easy">easy</span> <span word="meeting">meeting</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="people">people</span>, <span word="especially">especially</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="particularly">particularly</span> <span word="shy">shy</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="easier">easier</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="walk">walk</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="eye">eye</span> <span word="contact">contact</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="OK">OK</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="store">store</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="convention">convention</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="trade">trade</span> <span word="fair">fair</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="local">local</span> <span word="festival">festival</span>. <span word="That">That</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="walked">walked</span> <span word="past">past</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="valuable">valuable</span> <span word="contact">contact</span>. <span word="Or">Or</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="know">know</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="jerk">jerk</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="unless">unless</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="sure">sure</span>.</p><p>结识新朋友并不容易，如果你又是个害羞的人，那就更难了。直接从别人身边经过并避开眼神接触要自在得多。倘若这是在商店，那倒也无所谓；但若是参加会议、商展或当地节日，可就不太好了，你刚刚经过的那个人说不定就是潜在人脉，或许他们甚至认识你一直想结识的人，当然，他们也可能只是傻逼。可是，除非主动跟人搭话，否则你永远也不知道他们究竟是怎样的人。</p><p><span word="Will">Will</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="reject">reject</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="you">you</span>? <span word="Yes">Yes</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="cares">cares</span>? <span word="For">For</span> <span word="every">every</span> 10 <span word="people">people</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="talk">talk</span>, <span word="one">one</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="valuable">valuable</span> <span word="connections">connections</span> — <span word="or">or</span> <span word="lifelong">lifelong</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>. <span word="What">What</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="got">got</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="lose">lose</span>?</p><p>会不会有人直接甩脸懒得跟你搭话呢？当然会，可谁在乎？你跟10个人搭话，就有一两个人可能是潜在人脉——甚至终生朋友。你还有什么好吃亏的？</p><p><span word="Here">Here</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="few">few</span> <span word="ways">ways</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="overcome">overcome</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="fear">fear</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="turn">turn</span> <span word="strangers">strangers</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="connections">connections</span>:</p>
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