9个特征让你成为真正自信的人
<p><span word="First">First</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="first">first</span>: <span word="Confidence">Confidence</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="bravado">bravado</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="swagger">swagger</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="overt">overt</span> <span word="pretense">pretense</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="bravery">bravery</span>. <span word="Confidence">Confidence</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="bold">bold</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="brash">brash</span> <span word="air">air</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="belief">belief</span> <span word="directed">directed</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="others">others</span>.</p><p>首先要澄清的是：自信不是虚张声势，不是吹牛，也不是明显伪装勇敢。自信不是针对他人某种大胆、傲慢的自我肯定。</p><p><span word="Confidence">Confidence</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="quiet">quiet</span>: <span word="It">It</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="natural">natural</span> <span word="expression">expression</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="ability">ability</span>, <span word="expertise">expertise</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="regard">regard</span>.</p><p>自信是寂静的：它是一种对能力、专业知识和自我认同的自然表达。</p><p><span word="I">I</span>’<span word="m">m</span> <span word="fortunate">fortunate</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="number">number</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="truly">truly</span> <span word="confident">confident</span> <span word="people">people</span>. <span word="Many">Many</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="HubSpot">HubSpot</span>, <span word="others">others</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="fellow">fellow</span> <span word="founders">founders</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="startups">startups</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="whom">whom</span> <span word="I">I</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="met">met</span> <span word="through">through</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="angel">angel</span> <span word="investment">investment</span> <span word="activity">activity</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="majority">majority</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="I">I</span>’<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="met">met</span> <span word="through">through</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="career">career</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="variety">variety</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="industries">industries</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="professions">professions</span>.</p><p>我很幸运地认识一些真正自信的人。很多和我一起在<span word="HubSpot">HubSpot</span>工作。其它人是自主创业人士。我在天使投资活动中认识了他们。但是大部分是我在职业中认识的人，从事各种各样的行业。</p><p><span word="It">It</span> <span word="comes">comes</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="surprise">surprise</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="share">share</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="number">number</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="qualities">qualities</span>:</p><p>令人惊讶的是，他们都有这这样一些特质。</p><p>1. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="stand">stand</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="right">right</span>… <span word="but">but</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="afraid">afraid</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span></p><p>1. 不是因为认为自己永远正确他们才表明立场，而是因为他们不害怕犯错。</p>
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