职场丛林生存指南 拼智力还是拼努力
<p><span word="My">My</span> <span word="daughter">daughter</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="high">high</span> <span word="IQ">IQ</span>. <span word="I">I</span>’<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="sensed">sensed</span> <span word="it">it</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="eventually">eventually</span>, <span word="proved">proved</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="test">test</span>. <span word="At">At</span> <span word="least">least</span> <span word="once">once</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="month">month</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="ritual">ritual</span>. “<span word="I">I</span>’<span word="m">m</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="learning">learning</span> <span word="anything">anything</span>,” <span word="she">she</span> <span word="says">says</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="me">me</span>, <span word="as">as</span> <span word="she">she</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="faced">faced</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="after">after</span> <span word="school">school</span> <span word="homework">homework</span>. “<span word="School">School</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="getting">getting</span> <span word="smarter">smarter</span>,” <span word="I">I</span> <span word="tell">tell</span> <span word="her">her</span>, “<span word="It">It</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="working">working</span> <span word="harder">harder</span>.”</p><p>我女儿的智商挺高。在她小的时候我就有这种想法,后来带她做了智商测试,结果不出所料。每月我们至少进行一次以下例行公事的对话。她面对着课外作业,对我说:“我每天上学学不到任何东西。”我则教导她说:“上学并不是为了让你变聪明,而是让你更努力。”</p><p><span word="Having">Having</span> <span word="spent">spent</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="past">past</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="decades">decades</span> <span word="watching">watching</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="rise">rise</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="fall">fall</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="innovation">innovation</span> <span word="economy">economy</span>, <span word="I">I</span>’<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="convinced">convinced</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="IQ">IQ</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="clout">clout</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="fact">fact</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="it">it</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="burden">burden</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="does">does</span>. <span word="It">It</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="smarts">smarts</span>, <span word="it">it</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="talent">talent</span>, <span word="it">it</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="luck">luck</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="chance">chance</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="separates">separates</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="risers">risers</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="fallers">fallers</span> – <span word="it">it</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="grit">grit</span>.</p><p>在职场中经历了20年的风雨,见多了人们在创新经济中的沉浮,我一直认为<span word="IQ">IQ</span>在职场中并不是那么重要。非但如此,如果你真把<span word="IQ">IQ</span>看得过于重要,反而会成为一种负担。我认为真正在创新经济中主宰人之沉浮的因素并不是机敏精明、天资聪颖、幸运或机遇,而是“坚韧”。</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="term">term</span> “<span word="grit">grit</span>” <span word="was">was</span> <span word="made">made</span> <span word="popular">popular</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="academic">academic</span> <span word="circles">circles</span> <span word="in">in</span> 2013 <span word="by">by</span> <span word="Angela">Angela</span> <span word="Duckworth">Duckworth</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="psychology">psychology</span> <span word="professor">professor</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="University">University</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Pennsylvania">Pennsylvania</span> <span word="Psychology">Psychology</span>. <span word="Calling">Calling</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="the">the</span> “<span word="quality">quality</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="able">able</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="sustain">sustain</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="passions">passions</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="hard">hard</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="them">them</span>, <span word="over">over</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="disappointingly">disappointingly</span> <span word="long">long</span> <span word="periods">periods</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="time">time</span>,” <span word="she">she</span> <span word="explained">explained</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="grit">grit</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="overcome">overcome</span> <span word="stress">stress</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="use">use</span> <span word="failure">failure</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="means">means</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="achieve">achieve</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="ultimate">ultimate</span> <span word="goals">goals</span>.</p>
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