四种迹象表明你们的恋爱出了问题
<p><span word="Why">Why</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="it">it</span>, <span word="even">even</span> <span word="though">though</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>–<span word="maybe">maybe</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="love">love</span>–<span word="you">you</span> <span word="still">still</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="unhappy">unhappy</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="unsatisfied">unsatisfied</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="partner">partner</span>? <span word="Is">Is</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="sharing">sharing</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="supposed">supposed</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="like">like</span>? <span word="Maybe">Maybe</span> <span word="everything">everything</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="thought">thought</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="knew">knew</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="swept">swept</span> <span word="off">off</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="feet">feet</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="butterflies">butterflies</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="stomach">stomach</span>…<span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="anxiety">anxiety</span>. <span word="Here">Here</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="four">four</span> <span word="warning">warning</span> <span word="signs">signs</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="tell">tell</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="toxic">toxic</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>.</p><p>1. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="Criticizing">Criticizing</span></p><p><span word="Criticism">Criticism</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="helpful">helpful</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="points">points</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="problem">problem</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="notice">notice</span>. <span word="It">It</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="healthy">healthy</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span> <span word="work">work</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="once">once</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="problem">problem</span> <span word="ends">ends</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="critique">critique</span>. <span word="With">With</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="criticizer">criticizer</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="toxic">toxic</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="everything">everything</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="does">does</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="target">target</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="attacked">attacked</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="front">front</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="people">people</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="goes">goes</span> <span word="beyond">beyond</span> <span word="playful">playful</span> <span word="banter">banter</span>: <span word="this">this</span> <span word="criticism">criticism</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="overly">overly</span> <span word="harsh">harsh</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="causes">causes</span> <span word="real">real</span> <span word="harm">harm</span>. <span word="Behind">Behind</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="chronic">chronic</span> <span word="criticizer">criticizer</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="whose">whose</span> <span word="low">low</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="esteem">esteem</span> <span word="leads">leads</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="faults">faults</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="insecurities">insecurities</span>. <span word="Criticizers">Criticizers</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="fix">fix</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span> <span word="first">first</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="else">else</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="partners">partners</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="criticize">criticize</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="long">long</span>.</p><p>2. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="Controlling">Controlling</span></p><p><span word="Power">Power</span> <span word="dynamics">dynamics</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="tricky">tricky</span>. <span word="Sometimes">Sometimes</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="clearly">clearly</span> <span word="runs">runs</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="show">show</span>. <span word="That">That</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="okay">okay</span>, <span word="if">if</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="control">control</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="lives">lives</span>. <span word="Controlling">Controlling</span> <span word="partners">partners</span> <span word="limit">limit</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="loved">loved</span> <span word="ones">ones</span>’ <span word="choices">choices</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="let">let</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="independence">independence</span>. <span word="Even">Even</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="controlling">controlling</span> <span word="partners">partners</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="party">party</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="feels">feels</span> <span word="locked">locked</span> <span word="away">away</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="world">world</span>, <span word="like">like</span> <span word="prisoners">prisoners</span>, <span word="because">because</span> <span word="doing">doing</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="choice">choice</span>. <span word="Someone">Someone</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="let">let</span> <span word="go">go</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="else">else</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="both">both</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="searching">searching</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="leverage">leverage</span> <span word="somewhere">somewhere</span> <span word="else">else</span>.</p>
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