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<p><span word="Each">Each</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="pick">pick</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="phone">phone</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="chat">chat</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="person">person</span>, <span word="that">that</span> <span word="stranger">stranger</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="subconciously">subconciously</span> <span word="judging">judging</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="first">first</span> "<span word="hello">hello</span>." <span word="Don">Don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="mad">mad</span>: <span word="you">you</span>, <span word="too">too</span>, <span word="are">are</span> <span word="judging">judging</span> <span word="them">them</span>. <span word="New">New</span> <span word="research">research</span> <span word="indicates">indicates</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="begin">begin</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="form">form</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="impressions">impressions</span> <span word="based">based</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="says">says</span> "<span word="hello">hello</span>," <span word="ScienceNOW">ScienceNOW</span> <span word="reports">reports</span>—<span word="specifically">specifically</span>, <span word="on">on</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="tone">tone</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="voice">voice</span> <span word="sounds">sounds</span>.</p><p>每当你和一个陌生人通过电话聊天,他下意识地会根据你的第一句“哈啰”来评价你。别生气:你也是这样评价他们的。《今日科学》杂志报道称,新研究表明我们根据别人是如何说“哈啰”,即问好的方式,迅速形成第一印象------具体地来说,是根据他们的声调。</p><p><span word="Researchers">Researchers</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="U">U</span>.<span word="K">K</span>. <span word="recruited">recruited</span> <span word="around">around</span> 60 <span word="undergraduate">undergraduate</span> <span word="students">students</span>—<span word="half">half</span> <span word="male">male</span>, <span word="half">half</span> <span word="female">female</span>—<span word="and">and</span> <span word="recorded">recorded</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="reading">reading</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="short">short</span> <span word="passage">passage</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="non">non</span>-<span word="descript">descript</span> <span word="voice">voice</span>, <span word="ScienceNOW">ScienceNOW</span> <span word="describes">describes</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="team">team</span> <span word="edited">edited</span> <span word="down">down</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="recordings">recordings</span>, <span word="leaving">leaving</span> <span word="only">only</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="part">part</span> <span word="where">where</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="students">students</span> <span word="picked">picked</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="phone">phone</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="said">said</span> "<span word="hello">hello</span>." <span word="They">They</span> <span word="then">then</span> <span word="asked">asked</span> <span word="over">over</span> 300 <span word="other">other</span> <span word="students">students</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="listen">listen</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="recordings">recordings</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="single">single</span> <span word="word">word</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="asked">asked</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="give">give</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="impression">impression</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="unseen">unseen</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="speaking">speaking</span> <span word="it">it</span>, <span word="such">such</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="trustworthy">trustworthy</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="thought">thought</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="warm">warm</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="personality">personality</span> <span word="sounded">sounded</span>. (<span word="ScienceNOW">ScienceNOW</span> <span word="provides">provides</span> <span word="links">links</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="listening">listening</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="both">both</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="supposedly">supposedly</span> <span word="trustworthy">trustworthy</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="untrustworthy">untrustworthy</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="say">say</span> "<span word="hello">hello</span>.")</p><p>《今日科学》报道称,英国的研究人员调查者雇用了60名本科生——其中男女各一半——请他们用非描述性声音朗读一小段话,并录音。调查团队对录音进行剪辑,只留下学生拿起电话说“你好”那部分。然后,他们另外邀请了300多名学生听“哈罗”的录音,请他们给出对这个尚未谋面的说话者的印象,例如此人是否可靠或者性格是否温和。(《今日科学》提供链接,让人听听被猜想为是可靠和不可靠的人是如何说“哈罗”的)。</p>
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