美国社会学家给大学毕业生的忠告
<p>又到毕业季了，即将踏上社会的青年们，下一步该做什么呢？下面是两位美国社会学家压箱底的建议，关于爱，家庭，友谊和生命的意义，希望你能找到答案。</p><p>1. <span word="Don">Don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="worry">worry</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="making">making</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="dreams">dreams</span> <span word="come">come</span> <span word="true">true</span></p><p><span word="College">College</span> <span word="graduates">graduates</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="told">told</span>: "<span word="follow">follow</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="passion">passion</span>," <span word="do">do</span> "<span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="love">love</span>," <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="were">were</span> "<span word="meant">meant</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span>," <span word="or">or</span> "<span word="make">make</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="dreams">dreams</span> <span word="come">come</span> <span word="true">true</span>." <span word="Two">Two</span>-<span word="thirds">thirds</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="they">they</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="job">job</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="allows">allows</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="change">change</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="world">world</span>, <span word="half">half</span> <span word="within">within</span> <span word="five">five</span> <span word="years">years</span>. <span word="Yikes">Yikes</span>.</p><p><span word="This">This</span> <span word="sets">sets</span> <span word="young">young</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="fail">fail</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="truth">truth</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="vast">vast</span> <span word="majority">majority</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="employed">employed</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="job">job</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="both">both</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="lifelong">lifelong</span> <span word="passion">passion</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="world">world</span>-<span word="changer">changer</span>; <span word="that">that</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="global">global</span> <span word="economy">economy</span> <span word="is">is</span>. <span word="So">So</span> <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="ok">ok</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="set">set</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="sights">sights</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="tad">tad</span> <span word="below">below</span> <span word="occupational">occupational</span> <span word="ecstasy">ecstasy</span>. <span word="Just">Just</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="job">job</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="like">like</span>. <span word="Use">Use</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="job">job</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="full">full</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="lots">lots</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="pleasure">pleasure</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="helping">helping</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="stuff">stuff</span>. <span word="A">A</span> <span word="great">great</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="pretty">pretty</span> <span word="good">good</span>, <span word="even">even</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="perfect">perfect</span>.</p><p>2. <span word="Make">Make</span> <span word="friends">friends</span></p><p><span word="Americans">Americans</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="far">far</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="emphasis">emphasis</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="finding">finding</span> <span word="Mr">Mr</span>. <span word="or">or</span> <span word="Ms">Ms</span>. <span word="Right">Right</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="getting">getting</span> <span word="married">married</span>. <span word="We">We</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="bring">bring</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="happiness">happiness</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="fact">fact</span>, <span word="however">however</span>, <span word="both">both</span> <span word="psychological">psychological</span> <span word="well">well</span>-<span word="being">being</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="health">health</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="strongly">strongly</span> <span word="related">related</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="friendship">friendship</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>, <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="less">less</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="common">common</span> <span word="cold">cold</span>, <span word="less">less</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="die">die</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="cancer">cancer</span>, <span word="recover">recover</span> <span word="better">better</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="loss">loss</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="spouse">spouse</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="keep">keep</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="mental">mental</span> <span word="acuity">acuity</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="age">age</span>. <span word="You">You</span>'<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="capable">capable</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="facing">facing</span> <span word="life">life</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="challenges">challenges</span>, <span word="be">be</span> <span word="less">less</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="feed">feed</span> <span word="depressed">depressed</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="commit">commit</span> <span word="suicide">suicide</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="happier">happier</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="old">old</span> <span word="age">age</span>. <span word="Having">Having</span> <span word="happy">happy</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="increases">increases</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="chance">chance</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="happy">happy</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="extra">extra</span> $145,500 <span word="a">a</span> <span word="year">year</span> <span word="does">does</span>. <span word="So">So</span>, <span word="make">make</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>!</p>
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