科学教你如何“快乐厮守到老”
<p><span word="As">As</span> <span word="Daniel">Daniel</span> <span word="Jones">Jones</span>, <span word="author">author</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Love">Love</span> <span word="Illuminated">Illuminated</span>, <span word="explains">explains</span>: <span word="we">we</span> <span word="spend">spend</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="youth">youth</span> <span word="asking">asking</span> "<span word="How">How</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="love">love</span>?" <span word="and">and</span> <span word="midlife">midlife</span> <span word="asking">asking</span> "<span word="How">How</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="back">back</span>?"</p><p><span word="Anyone">Anyone</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="plans">plans</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="needs">needs</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="keep">keep</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="alive">alive</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="long">long</span> <span word="term">term</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="learn">learn</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="secret">secret</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="this">this</span>? <span word="Everyone">Everyone</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="happy">happy</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="explain">explain</span> "<span word="how">how</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="met">met</span>" <span word="but">but</span> <span word="few">few</span> <span word="give">give</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="details">details</span> <span word="on">on</span> "<span word="how">how</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="stayed">stayed</span> <span word="together">together</span>."</p><p><span word="So">So</span> <span word="let">let</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="science">science</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="say">say</span>.</p><p>"<span word="Happily">Happily</span> <span word="ever">ever</span> <span word="after">after</span>" <span word="ain">ain</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="easy">easy</span></p><p><span word="Aside">Aside</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="epitome">epitome</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="lazy">lazy</span> <span word="writing">writing</span>, "<span word="happily">happily</span> <span word="ever">ever</span> <span word="after">after</span>" <span word="is">is</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="simple">simple</span>.</p><p><span word="Ty">Ty</span> <span word="Tashiro">Tashiro</span> <span word="explains">explains</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="couples">couples</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="year">year</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="marriages">marriages</span> <span word="score">score</span> 86 <span word="percent">percent</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span> <span word="satisfaction">satisfaction</span>. <span word="By">By</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="seventh">seventh</span> <span word="year">year</span>, <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="under">under</span> 50 <span word="percent">percent</span>.</p><p><span word="Yes">Yes</span>, <span word="about">about</span> 50 <span word="percent">percent</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="couples">couples</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="divorced">divorced</span>. <span word="Another">Another</span> 10-15 <span word="percent">percent</span> <span word="separate">separate</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="file">file</span> <span word="paperwork">paperwork</span>. <span word="And">And</span> 7 <span word="more">more</span> <span word="percent">percent</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="chronically">chronically</span> <span word="unhappy">unhappy</span>.</p><p><span word="So">So</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="real">real</span> <span word="stat">stat</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="two">two</span>-<span word="thirds">thirds</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="marriages">marriages</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="live">live</span> "<span word="happily">happily</span> <span word="ever">ever</span> <span word="after">after</span>."</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="divorce">divorce</span> <span word="rate">rate</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="reported">reported</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="media">media</span> <span word="is">is</span> 50 <span word="percent">percent</span>, <span word="which">which</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="based">based</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="Census">Census</span> <span word="Bureau">Bureau</span> <span word="data">data</span>. <span word="However">However</span>, <span word="census">census</span> <span word="data">data</span> <span word="does">does</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="capture">capture</span> <span word="the">the</span> 10 <span word="to">to</span> 15 <span word="percent">percent</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="couples">couples</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="permanently">permanently</span> <span word="separate">separate</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="file">file</span> <span word="formal">formal</span> <span word="paperwork">paperwork</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="legal">legal</span> <span word="divorce">divorce</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="means">means</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="conservative">conservative</span> <span word="estimate">estimate</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="divorce">divorce</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="permanent">permanent</span> <span word="separation">separation</span> <span word="rate">rate</span> <span word="is">is</span> 60 <span word="percent">percent</span>. <span word="Add">Add</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="additional">additional</span> 7 <span word="percent">percent</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="chronically">chronically</span> <span word="unhappy">unhappy</span> <span word="couples">couples</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="divorce">divorce</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="permanently">permanently</span> <span word="separate">separate</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="consistently">consistently</span> <span word="unhappy">unhappy</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="means">means</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="two">two</span>-<span word="thirds">thirds</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="married">married</span> <span word="couples">couples</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="live">live</span> <span word="happily">happily</span> <span word="ever">ever</span> <span word="after">after</span>.</p>
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