研究：单身没什么不好
<p>"<span word="You">You</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="great">great</span> -- <span word="why">why</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="boyfriend">boyfriend</span>?"</p><p><span word="This">This</span> <span word="misguided">misguided</span> <span word="compliment">compliment</span>, <span word="often">often</span> <span word="doled">doled</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="young">young</span> <span word="successful">successful</span> <span word="women">women</span>, <span word="has">has</span> <span word="given">given</span> <span word="birth">birth</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="thought">thought</span> <span word="experiment">experiment</span>: <span word="If">If</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="woman">woman</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="great">great</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="romantic">romantic</span> <span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="appreciate">appreciate</span> <span word="her">her</span>, <span word="can">can</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="still">still</span> <span word="lead">lead</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="happy">happy</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="fulfilling">fulfilling</span> <span word="life">life</span>?</p><p><span word="Since">Since</span> 2000, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="common">common</span> <span word="American">American</span> <span word="household">household</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="living">living</span> <span word="alone">alone</span>. <span word="According">According</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> 2017 <span word="census">census</span>, 53.6 <span word="percent">percent</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="American">American</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="age">age</span> <span word="of">of</span> 18 <span word="were">were</span> <span word="unmarried">unmarried</span>. <span word="So">So</span> <span word="why">why</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="singles">singles</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="odd">odd</span> <span word="woman">woman</span> <span word="out">out</span>?</p><p><span word="We">We</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="living">living</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="post">post</span>-"<span word="Sex">Sex</span> <span word="And">And</span> <span word="The">The</span> <span word="City">City</span>" <span word="era">era</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="we">we</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="far">far</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="conventions">conventions</span> <span word="of">of</span> "<span word="The">The</span> <span word="Partridge">Partridge</span> <span word="Family">Family</span>" <span word="as">as</span> <span word="we">we</span>'<span word="d">d</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="think">think</span> (<span word="and">and</span> <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="worth">worth</span> <span word="noting">noting</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="SATC">SATC</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="cynical">cynical</span> <span word="Miranda">Miranda</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="fairytale">fairytale</span> <span word="romantic">romantic</span> <span word="ending">ending</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="said">said</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="done">done</span>). <span word="Over">Over</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="last">last</span> 15 <span word="years">years</span>, <span word="we">we</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="watched">watched</span> <span word="pop">pop</span> <span word="culture">culture</span> <span word="heroines">heroines</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="Mindy">Mindy</span> <span word="Lahiri">Lahiri</span>, <span word="Meredith">Meredith</span> <span word="Grey">Grey</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="Ally">Ally</span> <span word="McBeal">McBeal</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="professional">professional</span> <span word="accomplishments">accomplishments</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="back">back</span> <span word="burner">burner</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="south">south</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="romance">romance</span> <span word="department">department</span>. <span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="hard">hard</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="where">where</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="television">television</span> <span word="writers">writers</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="getting">getting</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="material">material</span>: <span word="Women">Women</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="single">single</span>, <span word="despite">despite</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="satisfying">satisfying</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="lives">lives</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="otherwise">otherwise</span>.</p><p><span word="Turns">Turns</span> <span word="out">out</span>, <span word="there">there</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="few">few</span> <span word="reasons">reasons</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="romantic">romantic</span> <span word="ennui">ennui</span>:</p><p><span word="You">You</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="putting">putting</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="stock">stock</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="type">type</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>...</p><p><span word="Unfortunately">Unfortunately</span>, <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="easy">easy</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="devalue">devalue</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="platonic">platonic</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="romantic">romantic</span> <span word="one">one</span> (<span word="if">if</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="one">one</span>, <span word="that">that</span> <span word="is">is</span>), <span word="but">but</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="mean">mean</span> <span word="we">we</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="reaping">reaping</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="psychological">psychological</span> <span word="benefits">benefits</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="platonic">platonic</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="lives">lives</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="fact">fact</span>, <span word="when">when</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="comes">comes</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="happiness">happiness</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="seems">seems</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="blind">blind</span>.</p>
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