正能量集锦：5种想法让自信魅力四射
<p><span word="No">No</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="doubts">doubts</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="value">value</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="confidence">confidence</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="fact">fact</span>, <span word="research">research</span> <span word="shows">shows</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="prefer">prefer</span> <span word="confidence">confidence</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="actual">actual</span> <span word="expertise">expertise</span>.</p><p>自信的价值毋庸置疑。事实上，研究显示人们看重自信更甚于实际能力。</p><p><span word="G">G</span>. <span word="Richard">Richard</span> <span word="Shell">Shell</span> <span word="teaches">teaches</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="Wharton">Wharton</span> <span word="School">School</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="book">book</span> <span word="Springboard">Springboard</span>: <span word="Launching">Launching</span> <span word="Your">Your</span> <span word="Personal">Personal</span> <span word="Search">Search</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="Success">Success</span>, <span word="out">out</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="paperback">paperback</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="week">week</span>, <span word="has">has</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="great">great</span> <span word="chapter">chapter</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="confident">confident</span>.</p><p>理查·谢尔现任教于沃顿商学院，他著作的《跳板：启动你的个人成功搜索》一书的平装版于本周与读者见面，书中有很精彩的一章内容是关于如何变得更加自信。</p><p><span word="Here">Here</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="know">know</span>.</p><p>以下是大家需要知道的。</p><p>1. <span word="Surround">Surround</span> <span word="Yourself">Yourself</span> <span word="With">With</span> <span word="People">People</span> <span word="Who">Who</span> <span word="Believe">Believe</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="You">You</span></p><p>1. 和相信你的人一起</p><p><span word="I">I</span>’<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="posted">posted</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="lot">lot</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="power">power</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="context">context</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="improve">improve</span> <span word="behavior">behavior</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="part">part</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="that">that</span>.</p><p>我发过很多关于环境的力量如何提升行为的论述。而人，也是这环境的一部分。</p><p><span word="When">When</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="told">told</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="respect">respect</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="believe">believe</span> <span word="it">it</span>. <span word="Partially">Partially</span> <span word="it">it</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="placebo">placebo</span> <span word="effect">effect</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="that">that</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="perfectly">perfectly</span> <span word="fine">fine</span>.</p><p>当你尊敬的人告诉你你很棒的时候，你会相信他。部分地讲，这也是一种安慰效应。但这种感觉真的很棒。</p><p><span word="This">This</span> <span word="creates">creates</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="fulfilling">fulfilling</span> <span word="prophecy">prophecy</span>. <span word="When">When</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="believe">believe</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="it">it</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="harder">harder</span>. <span word="When">When</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="believe">believe</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="you">you</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="push">push</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="harder">harder</span>.</p>
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