情侣之间沟通常出现的7个问题
<p>情侣间常犯的7个沟通问题</p><p><span word="Being">Being</span> <span word="half">half</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="couple">couple</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="difficult">difficult</span>, <span word="even">even</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="head">head</span>-<span word="over">over</span>-<span word="heels">heels</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="love">love</span>. <span word="Communicating">Communicating</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="honey">honey</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="touchy">touchy</span>, <span word="because">because</span> <span word="both">both</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="different">different</span> <span word="thoughts">thoughts</span>, <span word="opinions">opinions</span>, <span word="emotions">emotions</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="histories">histories</span>. <span word="Check">Check</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="list">list</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="common">common</span> <span word="communication">communication</span> <span word="mistakes">mistakes</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="couples">couples</span> <span word="make">make</span>, <span word="so">so</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="eliminate">eliminate</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>.</p><p>处对象不是件易事，即便你沉溺爱河无法自拔。爱人间的沟通有时会很敏感，因为两人有着不同的思想、观点、情感和过往。看看这个列表上多数情侣常犯的沟通问题，以便在恋爱时引以为鉴。</p><p>1. <span word="Assuming">Assuming</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="communication">communication</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="solution">solution</span>.</p><p>认为说得多就能解决问题</p><p><span word="Believe">Believe</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="not">not</span>, <span word="there">there</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="such">such</span> <span word="thing">thing</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="communication">communication</span>. <span word="Have">Have</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="ever">ever</span> <span word="discussed">discussed</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="argued">argued</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="point">point</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="start">start</span> <span word="saying">saying</span> <span word="everything">everything</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="comes">comes</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="mind">mind</span>? <span word="Sometimes">Sometimes</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="come">come</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="mind">mind</span> <span word="aren">aren</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="come">come</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="mouth">mouth</span>… <span word="But">But</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="happens">happens</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="saying">saying</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="hold">hold</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="communicating">communicating</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="much">much</span>. <span word="Sometimes">Sometimes</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="keep">keep</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="while">while</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="mean">mean</span> <span word="hiding">hiding</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="partner">partner</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="means">means</span> <span word="picking">picking</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="words">words</span> <span word="carefully">carefully</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="saying">saying</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="needs">needs</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="said">said</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="resolve">resolve</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="issue">issue</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="hand">hand</span>.</p><p>无论你信不信，话太多就是个问题。你有没有过多地为你的观点而讨论或争执，以至于什么事都随着性子说？有时心里想的并非就是最适合表达出来的...但往往这就因为你的话太多，所以才会在为自己据理力争时说错话。这个就是沟通超出范围的表现。有时你需要有所保留，但并不意味着要你瞒着另一半，而是指在处理手头之事时仔细斟酌你的话，只需说出能解决问题的就行。</p>
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