跨国恋背后的艰辛与浪漫
<p><span word="Even">Even</span> <span word="though">though</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="lived">lived</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="Beijing">Beijing</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="several">several</span> <span word="years">years</span>, <span word="Chinese">Chinese</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="still">still</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="closed">closed</span> <span word="book">book</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="Cathie">Cathie</span> <span word="Watson">Watson</span>.</p><p>即使已经在北京生活多年，凯蒂?沃森对于中国男士还是知之甚少。</p><p><span word="The">The</span> 27-<span word="year">year</span>-<span word="old">old</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="UK">UK</span> <span word="says">says</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="unable">unable</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="read">read</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="signs">signs</span> - <span word="or">or</span> <span word="rather">rather</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="lack">lack</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="signs">signs</span> - <span word="given">given</span> <span word="off">off</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="Chinese">Chinese</span> <span word="men">men</span>. “<span word="Quiet">Quiet</span>”, “<span word="hard">hard</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="reach">reach</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="to">to</span>” <span word="and">and</span> “<span word="shy">shy</span>” <span word="are">are</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="words">words</span> <span word="Watson">Watson</span> <span word="uses">uses</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="tries">tries</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="describe">describe</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="China">China</span> <span word="Daily">Daily</span>.</p><p>这位27岁的英国姑娘表示，自己难以读懂中国男士传达出的“信息”，确切的说是他们身上缺少这种信息。在接受《中国日报》采访时，她用“安静”、“拒人千里之外”、“腼腆”等词来描述中国男士。</p><p><span word="In">In</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="country">country</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="integrating">integrating</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="world">world</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="dimensions">dimensions</span> <span word="across">across</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="spectrum">spectrum</span>, <span word="cross">cross</span>-<span word="cultural">cultural</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="common">common</span>.</p><p>在这个方方面面都与世界接轨的国度，跨国恋情越来越常见。</p><p><span word="However">However</span>, <span word="different">different</span> <span word="dating">dating</span> <span word="cultures">cultures</span>, <span word="communication">communication</span> <span word="norms">norms</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="personalities">personalities</span> <span word="forged">forged</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="various">various</span> <span word="social">social</span> <span word="contexts">contexts</span> <span word="pose">pose</span> <span word="both">both</span> <span word="challenges">challenges</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="opportunities">opportunities</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="young">young</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="involved">involved</span> <span word="romantically">romantically</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="another">another</span> <span word="country">country</span>.</p><p>然而，不同社会背景下造就了约会文化、交际规范以及个性上的各不相同，这在为年轻跨国情侣制造机会的同时，也带来了挑战。</p><p><span word="Introverted">Introverted</span> <span word="men">men</span></p><p>内敛的男士</p><p><span word="Hu">Hu</span> <span word="Yiqiang">Yiqiang</span>, 31, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="Beijing">Beijing</span>-<span word="based">based</span> <span word="online">online</span> <span word="shop">shop</span> <span word="owner">owner</span>, <span word="has">has</span> <span word="set">set</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="heart">heart</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="finding">finding</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="non">non</span>-<span word="Chinese">Chinese</span> <span word="wife">wife</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="partner">partner</span>, <span word="mainly">mainly</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="frustrated">frustrated</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="demands">demands</span> <span word="made">made</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="Chinese">Chinese</span> <span word="women">women</span> - <span word="a">a</span> <span word="big">big</span> <span word="apartment">apartment</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="nice">nice</span> <span word="car">car</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="job">job</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="usual">usual</span> <span word="requirements">requirements</span> <span word="cited">cited</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="Chinese">Chinese</span> <span word="dates">dates</span>, <span word="Hu">Hu</span> <span word="says">says</span>. <span word="That">That</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="wants">wants</span>.</p>
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