一些与伴侣增进感情的小秘诀
<p><span word="When">When</span> <span word="Tomi">Tomi</span> <span word="Tuel">Tuel</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="husband">husband</span> <span word="comes">comes</span> <span word="home">home</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="business">business</span> <span word="trip">trip</span>, <span word="she">she</span> <span word="grills">grills</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="steak">steak</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="mixes">mixes</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="Mudslide">Mudslide</span> <span word="cocktail">cocktail</span>, <span word="bakes">bakes</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="cake">cake</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="hangs">hangs</span> <span word="party">party</span> <span word="streamers">streamers</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="fan">fan</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="kitchen">kitchen</span> <span word="table">table</span>. <span word="Once">Once</span> <span word="after">after</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="especially">especially</span> <span word="long">long</span> <span word="trip">trip</span>, <span word="she">she</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="dressed">dressed</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="dog">dog</span> -- <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="tutu">tutu</span>, <span word="reindeer">reindeer</span> <span word="ears">ears</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="sign">sign</span> <span word="around">around</span> <span word="its">its</span> <span word="neck">neck</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="read">read</span>: '<span word="Welcome">Welcome</span> <span word="home">home</span>, <span word="Dad">Dad</span>!'</p><p>当多美·托尔(<span word="Tomi">Tomi</span> <span word="Tuel">Tuel</span>)的丈夫结束出差回到家后，多美给他煎了牛排、调了一杯香浓丝滑的鸡尾酒、烤了一块蛋糕，还在厨房餐桌上方的风扇上挂了许多聚会彩带。每次多美的丈夫长期出差后回家，她和孩子们都会将宠物狗盛装打扮一番——给它穿上芭蕾舞裙、戴上麋鹿角，再在它的脖子上挂上一块写有“欢迎回家，老爸！”的牌子。</p><p>'<span word="He">He</span> <span word="thanked">thanked</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="thanked">thanked</span> <span word="me">me</span>,' <span word="says">says</span> <span word="Ms">Ms</span>. <span word="Tuel">Tuel</span>, 48, <span word="who">who</span> <span word="lives">lives</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="Folsom">Folsom</span>, <span word="Calif">Calif</span>., <span word="and">and</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="state">state</span> <span word="budget">budget</span> <span word="analyst">analyst</span>. '<span word="He">He</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="gushing">gushing</span>.'</p><p>托尔女士称：“我丈夫不止一次向我表达了谢意。”现在48岁的托尔女士居住在加利福尼亚州的福尔瑟姆(<span word="Folsom">Folsom</span>)，她是一位州预算分析员。</p><p><span word="Do">Do</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="show">show</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="spouse">spouse</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="care">care</span>?</p><p>你会不厌其烦地向伴侣表示关心吗？</p><p><span word="You">You</span> <span word="should">should</span>. <span word="Experts">Experts</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="common">common</span> <span word="cause">cause</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="divorce">divorce</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="feeling">feeling</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="unappreciated">unappreciated</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="one">one</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="spouse">spouse</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="problem">problem</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="sneaks">sneaks</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>. <span word="Couples">Couples</span> <span word="expect">expect</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="having">having</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="financial">financial</span> <span word="difficulties">difficulties</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="strain">strain</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>. <span word="Yet">Yet</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="unprepared">unprepared</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="sadness">sadness</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="resentment">resentment</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="result">result</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="feeling">feeling</span> <span word="ignored">ignored</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="taken">taken</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="granted">granted</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="partner">partner</span>.</p>
页:
[1]