每家公司都有3种人 领袖,囚徒和游客
<p><span word="When">When</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="run">run</span> <span word="workshops">workshops</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="corporations">corporations</span>, <span word="after">after</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="warm">warm</span>-<span word="up">up</span> <span word="exercises">exercises</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="turn">turn</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="group">group</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="say">say</span> “<span word="Would">Would</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="leaders">leaders</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="room">room</span> <span word="please">please</span> <span word="raise">raise</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="hands">hands</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span>.” <span word="Most">Most</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="time">time</span>, <span word="there">there</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="nervous">nervous</span> <span word="hesitation">hesitation</span>, <span word="faces">faces</span> <span word="swiveling">swiveling</span> <span word="around">around</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="raising">raising</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="hands">hands</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="few">few</span> <span word="giggles">giggles</span>, <span word="uncertain">uncertain</span> <span word="looks">looks</span>, <span word="silence">silence</span>…<span word="and">and</span> <span word="usually">usually</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="hands">hands</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="slowly">slowly</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="air">air</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="say">say</span> “<span word="Great">Great</span>! <span word="Welcome">Welcome</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="program">program</span>!” <span word="Then">Then</span>, <span word="to">to</span> <span word="everyone">everyone</span> <span word="else">else</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="ask">ask</span> “<span word="So">So</span>, <span word="tell">tell</span> <span word="me">me</span>, <span word="since">since</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="aren">aren</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="leaders">leaders</span>, <span word="what">what</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="you">you</span>?” <span word="Usually">Usually</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="silence">silence</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="uncertain">uncertain</span> <span word="facial">facial</span> <span word="expressions">expressions</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="reply">reply</span>. <span word="Sometimes">Sometimes</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="like">like</span> “<span word="Well">Well</span> <span word="only">only</span> <span word="started">started</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="job">job</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="year">year</span> <span word="ago">ago</span>.” <span word="Or">Or</span>: “<span word="I">I</span>’<span word="m">m</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="relatively">relatively</span> <span word="junior">junior</span> <span word="position">position</span>.” <span word="But">But</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="kind">kind</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="answers">answers</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="am">am</span> <span word="looking">looking</span> <span word="for">for</span>.</p><p>为公司组织研讨会时，我总会在一番铺垫之后对与会者说：“在座的所有领导请举手，我想看看都是谁。”大多数情况下，他们会感到紧张，还有一些迟疑。他们左顾右盼，看看有谁会举手。还有人傻笑几声，还有就是茫然的目光和沉默……通常只有一、两个人慢慢地把手举起来。这时我会说：“好极了！欢迎参加这次研讨会！”然后，我就会问其他人：“那么，既然你们不是领导，告诉我你们是什么？”回应我的一般都是沉寂和更加茫然的表情。有时候他们会说，“这工作我才干了一年”，或者“我的职位较低。”但这并不是我想听到的答案。</p>
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