我是个努力奋斗的人 未婚妻不同意我买房
<p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="am">am</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="striver">striver</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="fianc">fianc</span>é<span word="e">e</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="creative">creative</span> <span word="free">free</span> <span word="spirit">spirit</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="five">five</span> <span word="years">years</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="lived">lived</span> <span word="together">together</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="paid">paid</span> <span word="off">off</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="debts">debts</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="built">built</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="stock">stock</span> <span word="portfolio">portfolio</span> <span word="big">big</span> <span word="enough">enough</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="deposit">deposit</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="house">house</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="London">London</span>. <span word="She">She</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="credit">credit</span>-<span word="card">card</span> <span word="bill">bill</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="hefty">hefty</span> <span word="student">student</span> <span word="loan">loan</span>. <span word="To">To</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="fair">fair</span>, <span word="she">she</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="quit">quit</span> <span word="jobs">jobs</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="moved">moved</span> <span word="country">country</span> <span word="twice">twice</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="pursue">pursue</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="career">career</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="buy">buy</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="house">house</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="unfashionable">unfashionable</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="upcoming">upcoming</span> <span word="area">area</span> <span word="while">while</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="prefers">prefers</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="rent">rent</span> <span word="somewhere">somewhere</span> <span word="trendier">trendier</span>. <span word="My">My</span> <span word="primary">primary</span> <span word="aim">aim</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="matrimonial">matrimonial</span> <span word="harmony">harmony</span>: <span word="what">what</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="do">do</span>?</p><p>我是一个努力奋斗的人，我的未婚妻则是一个富有创造力、无拘无束的人。在我们一起生活的五年当中，我偿清了自己的债务，并积累起了一个股票投资组合，其规模足以支付在伦敦购买一栋房子的定金。未婚妻则背负着信用卡账单以及高昂的学生贷款债务。平心而论，她为了我能追寻自己的事业，曾经两次辞职并跨国迁移。我希望在一个并不时髦但前景看好的地段买一栋房子，而她想要在更时尚的地方租房居住。我的首要目标是和谐的婚姻关系：我应当怎么做？</p><p><span word="Analyst">Analyst</span>, <span word="male">male</span>, 32</p><p>分析师，男性，32岁</p><p><span word="Lucy">Lucy</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="answer">answer</span></p><p>露西的建议</p><p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="found">found</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="woman">woman</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="traipse">traipse</span> <span word="around">around</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="world">world</span> <span word="behind">behind</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="while">while</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="further">further</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="career">career</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="if">if</span>, <span word="after">after</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="traipsing">traipsing</span>, <span word="she">she</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="still">still</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="creative">creative</span> <span word="free">free</span> <span word="spirit">spirit</span> <span word="rather">rather</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="put">put</span>-<span word="upon">upon</span>, <span word="resentful">resentful</span> <span word="misanthrope">misanthrope</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="done">done</span> <span word="well">well</span>. <span word="Your">Your</span> <span word="investment">investment</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="wiser">wiser</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="investment">investment</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="equities">equities</span> (<span word="which">which</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="pretty">pretty</span> <span word="good">good</span>, <span word="judging">judging</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="fact">fact</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="already">already</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="enough">enough</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="house">house</span> <span word="deposit">deposit</span>).</p>
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