终生大事:嫁还是不嫁 这是个问题
<p><span word="A">A</span> <span word="recent">recent</span> <span word="online">online</span> <span word="commercial">commercial</span> <span word="tells">tells</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="following">following</span> <span word="story">story</span>: <span word="upon">upon</span> <span word="graduating">graduating</span>, <span word="getting">getting</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="job">job</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="promoted">promoted</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="female">female</span> <span word="protagonist">protagonist</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="grandmother">grandmother</span>, <span word="whose">whose</span> <span word="health">health</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="decline">decline</span>, <span word="keeps">keeps</span> <span word="asking">asking</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="same">same</span> <span word="question">question</span>, “<span word="When">When</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="getting">getting</span> <span word="married">married</span>?”, <span word="until">until</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="woman">woman</span> <span word="finally">finally</span> <span word="rushes">rushes</span> <span word="home">home</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="wedding">wedding</span> <span word="dress">dress</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="bring">bring</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="elderly">elderly</span> <span word="lady">lady</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="dying">dying</span> <span word="days">days</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="ultimate">ultimate</span> <span word="comfort">comfort</span>.</p><p>最近一则网络广告的情节如下：每当女主角经历大学毕业、求职成功、工作晋升时，年迈多病的外婆嘴边总是挂着同一个问题：“结婚了吧？”；直到广告结尾，女主角身披婚纱冲回家中，终于在外婆临终满足了她最大的心愿</p><p><span word="Marriage">Marriage</span> <span word="puts">puts</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="lot">lot</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="pressure">pressure</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="single">single</span> <span word="women">women</span>, <span word="as">as</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="destined">destined</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="married">married</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="order">order</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="fulfill">fulfill</span> <span word="others">others</span>’, <span word="rather">rather</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="own">own</span>, <span word="expectations">expectations</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="what">what</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="pushing">pushing</span> <span word="single">single</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="matrimony">matrimony</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="social">social</span> <span word="stereotype">stereotype</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="form">form</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="identification">identification</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="creates">creates</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="dilemma">dilemma</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="modern">modern</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="today">today</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="social">social</span> <span word="contexts">contexts</span>, <span word="experts">experts</span> <span word="say">say</span>.</p><p>婚姻令单身女性们不堪重负，仿佛她们结婚并不是为了自己，而是为了满足他人的期望。然而专家表示，是约定俗成的社会观念以及通过婚姻实现自我认同迫使单身女性早日嫁人，这也造成了当今社会中现代女性的窘境。</p><p><span word="In">In</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="book">book</span> <span word="Seeking">Seeking</span> <span word="Happily">Happily</span> <span word="Ever">Ever</span> <span word="After">After</span>: <span word="Navigating">Navigating</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="Ups">Ups</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="Downs">Downs</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Being">Being</span> <span word="Single">Single</span> <span word="Without">Without</span> <span word="Losing">Losing</span> <span word="Your">Your</span> <span word="Mind">Mind</span> (<span word="and">and</span> <span word="Finding">Finding</span> <span word="Lasting">Lasting</span> <span word="Love">Love</span> <span word="Along">Along</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="Way">Way</span>), <span word="US">US</span> <span word="author">author</span> <span word="Michelle">Michelle</span> <span word="Cove">Cove</span> <span word="tries">tries</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="reveal">reveal</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>. <span word="As">As</span> <span word="reported">reported</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="Marie">Marie</span> <span word="Claire">Claire</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="women">women</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="magazine">magazine</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="US">US</span>, <span word="Cove">Cove</span> <span word="identifies">identifies</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="categories">categories</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="single">single</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="based">based</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="intensive">intensive</span> <span word="interviews">interviews</span>.</p>
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