职场榜样：成功人士如何应对坏消息
<p><span word="Everyone">Everyone</span> <span word="loves">loves</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="news">news</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="good">good</span>. <span word="News">News</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="getting">getting</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="promotion">promotion</span>, <span word="winning">winning</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="contract">contract</span>, <span word="receiving">receiving</span> <span word="positive">positive</span> <span word="feedback">feedback</span>, <span word="whatever">whatever</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="be">be</span>, <span word="gives">gives</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="buzz">buzz</span>. <span word="Good">Good</span> <span word="news">news</span> <span word="release">release</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="happy">happy</span> <span word="hormones">hormones</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="body">body</span> <span word="which">which</span> <span word="lift">lift</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="mood">mood</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="provide">provide</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="natural">natural</span> <span word="antidote">antidote</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="stress">stress</span>.</p><p>人人都喜欢好消息。因为好消息可以让人感觉良好。无论这个消息是关于升职、赢得一份新合同、获得正面的反馈还是其他什么，都会让我们非常兴奋。好消息会使我们的身体释放出可以改善我们的情绪的快乐荷尔蒙，这种荷尔蒙正是缓解压力的一剂天然妙方。</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="reverse">reverse</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="true">true</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="news">news</span>. <span word="We">We</span> <span word="naturally">naturally</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="news">news</span>. <span word="Nobody">Nobody</span> <span word="wants">wants</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="hear">hear</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="well">well</span>, <span word="that">that</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="hasn">hasn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="worked">worked</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="failed">failed</span>. <span word="When">When</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="news">news</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="try">try</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="push">push</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="away">away</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="ignore">ignore</span> <span word="them">them</span>, <span word="because">because</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="opposite">opposite</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="news">news</span> – <span word="they">they</span> <span word="naturally">naturally</span> <span word="trigger">trigger</span> <span word="worries">worries</span>, <span word="stress">stress</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="less">less</span> <span word="happy">happy</span>.</p><p>我们通常不喜欢坏消息。没人会想听到诸如事情进展的不顺利、方法无效或者我们失败了等消息。当坏消息来的时候，我们经常试图逃避或者无视它们。因为它们和好消息正好相反——它们会诱发焦虑，产生压力，使人痛苦。</p><p><span word="At">At</span> <span word="work">work</span>, <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="news">news</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="hidden">hidden</span>, <span word="brushed">brushed</span> <span word="under">under</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="carpet">carpet</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="ignored">ignored</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="reasons">reasons</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="wants">wants</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="admit">admit</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="made">made</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="mistake">mistake</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="believe">believe</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="bearers">bearers</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="news">news</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="firing">firing</span> <span word="line">line</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="interest">interest</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="career">career</span> <span word="progression">progression</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="keep">keep</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="general">general</span> <span word="mood">mood</span> <span word="up">up</span>, <span word="we">we</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="news">news</span>.</p>
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